MY DOCTOR TELLS

Best age for marriage is 20 to 25 years both for boy and girl.
Don’t wait till you are 28 or 29.

MY DOCTOR TELLS: BEST AGE FOR MARRIAGE IS 20 YEARS TO 25 YEARS.

MY DOCTOR TELLS
WHY 20 TO 25 YEARS IS BEST FOR MARRIAGE

The testosterone hormone and other hormones are at crazy high in teens. Puberty (Adolescence) kick starts growth in the reproductive system so that a child matures into grown up adult capable of bearing healthy children. This is the time when sexual arousal (romance, love) rises to unprecedented peak. Nature’s law commands human body to indulge in sexual activity. Your child has begun to experience pleasure sensation of different kind, sexual pleasure,
Physically, emotionally, intellectually, instinctively, intuitively, ethically you have God’s master piece, the adult human being, ready by the time teenage is over.

MY DOCTOR TELLS DEFINITION OF TEEN

Teen =thirteen to nineteen.

Nature’s universal intrinsic law of development, the bio rhythm, does not and will not wait or postpone the cascade of biological changes of ripening for fertility & best progeny (sexual pleasure included). It is Nature prepares human being for procreation/recreation at the optimum time. It is not Nature’s business or God’s job to wait till you finish your studies or settle in business or job. In the mangoe season mangoes will ripen & fall whether you pluck them or not.

So when sexual drive and fertility is at its peak it is the best time for conjugal union. (Throughout this chapter read sex also as love or romance.)

It also gives sufficient time for the couple to establish strong bonding in their relationship. This is the single most important fundamental foundation of quality rich marriage.

Not to say that if the girl & the boy find they are mismatch they become more prudent & there is time enough to find the right match.
Did you say they are too young for their life’s decision?
I disagree. You have respected their intelligence to vote, meaning to choose who is the right person to govern the town, the state, the nation. You respect their maturity by allowing them to view movies, which are strictly for grown up adults and prohibited for the kids. Besides, it is better that the young decide and not the old as to what is good for their own lives. They can certainly seek guidance from the old folk as also learn from their mistakes. (The next generation cannot be carbon copy of the previous generation.)

WHAT ABOUT THEIR HIGHER EDUCATION, THEIR JOB
They can be steady and pursue their learning, unlearning & vocation. In committed relation they have healthy sexual outlet. Romance, love, sex are complementary not contradictory to their learning to live and earn.

On Fast Track with Dr. Ashok Koparday. Marriage Counselor