excess-masturbation

There is nothing like excess masturbation.
Just as there is nothing like excess sex with your wife.

DID YOU KNOW?

You will note that body does not allow beyond a limit ‘excess’ in eating, so too it does not allow excess in ‘masturbation’.

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Why it appears excess?
One clear reason is you do not know what is normal. You do not know about others, just as others do not know about how many times you masturbate.

Other reason is not getting correct knowledge from correct source at correct time. This breeds myths.
I have seen that even grown up, educated people have wrong beliefs about masturbation. You know why.

How masturbation (appears) to happen in excess?
Sexual growth begins early at (near about) 14 years age or earlier when you are in (near about) fifth standard. This is called adolescence.

Hair – mustache, beard, armpits, pubic area, on arms and legs – start growing, indicating that nature is preparing the child to become an adult.

Testosterone hormone levels shoot up. Sexual desire increases. The safest outlet for sexual desires is masturbation.

Why masturbation in excess never happens in human body?

Just as you eat voraciously, three times more than the normal quantity of food you eat if you are starving for two days, so too, you tend to indulge in masturbation as soon as privacy is available. Depending upon time available, the sexual excitement and privacy you may masturbate 3 times or 4 times (for example).
After the 3rd time you feel ‘done’, ‘enough’ and you go back to work/sleep.
Just as when starving boy after eating 3 times more food than the normal quantity of food he eats is told by his body to ‘Enough’, ‘No more’, so too body signals ‘Enough’, ‘No more’, to masturbation/sex with partner.
Automatically your body puts a stop and you cannot eat even little morsel more when your belly is full. Similar stop function happens with masturbation.

You will note that body does not allow beyond a limit ‘excess’ in eating, so too it does not allow excess in ‘masturbation’.

Still I feel I have done masturbation too much and began at early age.
This feeling is going to persist since you are holding to this belief for long time, several years. Lack of correct knowledge at the correct time from correct source is the cause of this belief.

FOR PARENTS AND TEENAGERS

Take home message:
Be cool. Human body is marvellous and knows to take care of itself.