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Frequently Asked Questions and Solutions

Mike writes:
Hi, I’ve been researching this topic for awhile and I must say the information is great. Thanks!

REPLY: mydoctortells
Hi Mike B.,
Thank you Mike.
I am glad you appreciate the scientific educational details given on Male and Female Sexual Health.
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These are actual sex problems asked my real people

(names have been changed to respect privacy) and the replies are those given by Dr. Ashok Koparday, Consultant Sex Therapist, Marriage Counselor.

YOUR QUESTIONS – MYDOCTORTELLS

QUESTION:
I am a 25 years old married lady. In September I got my periods on 10. In October I have my periods on 5. My last menses started on 31st October. Now in November we have intercourse on 24th november with protection (condom). Today is 29th of November and I am still not have my periods. So i am worried that if condom was split. I am affraid of being pragnant right now. Before marriage my periods were regular (mainly 28-30 days cycle) From last few months its 26-27 days. and this month it is 29th day n still i didnt have it. 24th November (25th day of my cycle) : Is it possible to be a firtile day???? or getting pragnant???

REPLY: mydoctortells
HI,
Your cycle averages to 26 days. 14 days before the expected period one ovum is released.
First day of last period was 31 October
The expected first day of periods would be 26 November.
Ovulation day would be 14 days prior to this.
Day of ovulation is 12 November.
Two days before and two days after 12th November is your fertile period.
10 November to 14 November is your fertile period.
Your sexual intercourse was on 24 November, which is just two days prior to expected menses 26 November.
Sex on 24th November is most unlikely to result in pregnancy. This is your SAFE PERIOD.
Moreover, you used condom to prevent pregnancy.
You are worried because your periods are delayed.
To the Calendar method/Rhythm method add one more method to find whether you are pregnant.
What should I do now?
Two days before missed period Urine Pregnancy Test can detect HCG.
Do Urine Pregnancy Test (UPT). When the test shows “No Pregnancy” your worry will be drastically reduced. Details of this simple method of detecting pregnancy at home in total privacy are given here.

The question you would have is, “Why are my periods delayed if there is no pregnancy?”
Periods can be delayed for different reasons.
Apparently, you are recently married. After marriage up to one year (approximately) stress levels are high. You have to adust to the changes in lifestyle and interacting with different people all of whom have some expectations from you, the new bride.
Such stress can cause delayed periods.
“What should I do so that next time I am sure I am not pregnant? I don’t want to worry like this. It’s too bad.”
You used condom. This is a non chemical mechanical barrier method of contraception. Condom is reliable. Small percentage of failure of condom resulting in pregnancy are reported. They are due to reasons like actually not using condom, tearing of condom. Semen may spill in to vagina if penis is withdrawn after long time. Penis returns to flaccid state hence there is space for semen to spill. These instances are more theoretical.
Second method to prevent pregnancy is to have sexual activity during the SAFE PERIOD.
In the first year of marriage this method is not reliable because periods may vary until you are really settled in the new environment. Your sexual activity was during SAFE PERIOD.
What else remains is simple knowledge about SAFE PERIOD and FERTILE or UNSAFE period.
This is not the surest or best method to avoid pregnancy still it is useful to know this Calendar method.
Every girl must know about the calendar method in her teens, definitely before marriage or sexual activity.
mydoctortells can help you in this
Please read PREGNANCY AND PERIODS and
FERTILE PERIOD UNSAFE PERIOD http://doctortells.blogspot.in.

PLEASE FEEL FREEE TO CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE DOUBTS OR ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS.
DR. ASHOK KOPARDE


HI,
Please Help my wife is tested positive its been one moth as per doctor.But my wife was taking MicroDox tablet for her face pimples during last month as per doctor its not good for pregnant women and asked us to remove child because if it is born may get effected by the Table.

Please help as soon with suggestion.

REPLY: mydoctortells
Yes, some medicines when taken during pregnancy can cause congenital anomalies (deformities) in the new born. Please follow the advice given by the doctor who has examined you.

Please let me know if you have any more questions or issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS FCSEPI
Consultant Psycho-Sexual Medicine

Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

Member: Indian Medical Association
Accreditation: Maharashtra Medical Council Registration
Member: Family Planning Association of India

Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]


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I am a 16 year old boy I accidentally ejaculated on 20th March 2012 but i felt very scared to know that after i ejaculate white cum a brown thick liquid smelling same as cum gets out. I am really worried please REPLY SOOON

REPLY: mydoctortells
Hi Suresh,
You are not accustomed to ejaculate. When it happens again you will realize it is normal. After ejaculation there is a deep relaxed feeling (some people misunderstand it as ‘kamjoori’).

If you have any more queries don’t hesitate to send your query.
Your well wisher,
Dr. Ashok Koparday


hi doctor,
i thought i had Premature ejaculation problem and went to consult a doctor. he said i am normal and because of my worry he gave me some tablets. He convinced me that masturbation is no wrong. On this thought i did masturbation daily for about a month. suddenly one day i noticed one of testis was hanging down and i experience pain in that area.
i went to consult him. He said it was due to varicocele on both testis and i have to underwent a opertion. I did the same. Then for about six monhs i had some pain in both the testis which doctor told me it was due to some thing like epidermis. I have inflamation at the tip of testis. He said it will be okay over time. I insisted him but he convinced me it wont be problem.

please tell me am i eligible for marriage and can i be able to satisfy a girl?

REPLY: mydoctortells
Hi doggy,
I hardly ever have asked for any surgery. You seem to have gone through so many things. Go to a competent Sex Therapist. This will give you assurance that all is well with you. With this confidence you can go ahead with your marriage. Or do a ‘Semen Analysis Report’ from any good pathology laboratory. It will show normal sperm count. That should give you confidence of you being normal.

My best wishes are with you.

Please read carefully the details given in http://mydoctortells.com.
If still you have doubts or questions feel free to ask me.

Dr. Ashok Koparday
Medical Director
Samadhan India: Center for Therapy, Education, Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships.

Ex Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital
and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals


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hai i am lalith, age 25 . i am newly married we r enjoying our sex life. but we have fear bout licking pussy and sucking cock. while licking pussy or sucking cock we swallow saliva . i want know it will make any disease or harm to health or this type of sex is wrong

REPLY: mydoctortells
HI,
SENT PERSONAL RELY BY EMAIL
MAINTAIN CLEANLINESS. GOOD HYGIENE. BOTH TAKE BATH BEFORE THIS SEXUAL ACTIVITY. NOW ENJOY.
PLEASE READ HTTP://MYDOCTORTELLS.COM AND AGAIN AND AGAIN.
PLEASE CONTACT ME BY USING MY EMAIL.
DR. ASHOK KOPARDE

Just married. I have Erectile Dysfunction ED.

my name is ROHAN and I am 29 yrs old, male married for 2 weeks

one doctor to whom i visited with problem of ED (sometimes no/partial/not long enough/soft after few tests
(testosterone – 8.55; prolactin – 8.52; testosterone free – 10.60) told me that my cholesterol is high (my cholesterol is with in range but on higher side – its around 190 where higher side range is 200 as per report of lipid profile) due to which by blood is not reaching in correct amount and he gave me two tablets that day for dialation of blood vessels … after which I noticied good erection follwed by bluish vision that night… he suggested to continue some more medicines for a month … however didnt gave any prescription just few coloured tablets … I suspect them to be some kind of steroids … is it safe to continue … is it possible for the group of esteemed lifesaver to guide for proper medicines/tests or local doctor in or around Delhi/NCR whom I can re-visit … one more thing … my sugar is in range and control … also – I had just noticed that I have delay in urination from long and for some unknown reason I have not taken a note of it till now … please help …

REPLY: mydoctortells
HI ROHAN,
YOU ARE A YOUNG PERSON. GOOD NEWS IS YOU CAN BE COMPLETELY CURED.
See

on http://mydoctortells.com.

Your problem primarily is not Erectile Dysfunction.

You will find the correct cause of your problem and right solution with pictures in topics on ‘NEWLY WED’.(see on right sidebar under ‘All Topics’ or Menu at the Top of this page.)
In FAQ-Newly Wed (Frequently Asked Questions by Newly Wed) you will find links that take you to animated pictures illustrating cause of not being able to penetrate after marriage and you will also find the solution.
Know about Sexual PROBLEMS IN HONEY MOON and necessary treatment.
It is not uncommon to have difficulty in
insertion for the newly married. Read all about how to insert penis in vagina (click here).

If you have additional questions get back to me. Feel free to ask.
DR. ASHOK KOPARDE

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Pain in penis. Sex more than once.

sir,
i am 34 year old.
after sex when i desire to do sex again i feel pain in my penice.
is this akind of weakness?
how can i do sex two or three time in a night?

REPLY: mydoctortells
(SEE YOUR INBOX. I HAVE SENT YOU PERSONAL REPLY)
Hi Rajendra,
Greetings.
Vigorous thrusting in sexual excitement can cause mild bearable pain in penis. If you want to do sex more than once consecutively then you need a HONEYMOON. Go for luxurious vaccation. With heightened romance and erotic zest (as in young people) you can do sex more than once. In the hurry worry of daily mundane life this becomes difficult.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

Husband & wife have same BLOOD GROUP. Will there be any problem as in getting child?

Hi
sir
i am 25yrs old, igot married just 8 months before. we have the same blood group B+ve. Still now i am not conceived. i want to know whether same blood group will casues any problem in pregency. please reply me sir.

REPLY: mydoctortells

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HI SUBHA,

SAME BLOOD GROUP DOES NOT CAUSE PROBLEM IN GETTING PREGNANT.
If the blood group of mother is ‘NEGATIVE’ Gynecologists/Obstetricians take special precaution.
If you have additional doubts feel free to ask.
DR. ASHOK KOPARDE

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Wife and I dissatisfied due to quick discharge

SUDHAKAR P CHINAPPA says:
I’m 32 years old married . I am able to have intercourse but ejaculate as it penatrates her vagina with in one second. I lose my erection whenever I try to penetrate. However, the erection is fine and good for masturbation. My wife is very distrbed due to this problem and after once i ejaculat it takes 2 to 3 hrs to get erectio. this problem is started for me from 6 monthes i have three kids till know all was good . Please advise as this has caused a lot of frustration for both of us.

REPLY: mydoctortells

(I HAVE SENT YOU PERSONAL REPLY)
Hi Sudhakar,
Your premature ejaculation can be DEFINITELY cured. Your and your wife’s frustration can end. To delay ejaculation you may use methods that do not require medicines. If necessary you may have to take some medicine in the beginning to restore your confidence. To get your solution see Premature Ejaculation in the list of ALL POSTS on the right sidebar. Also see tips on how to give maximum sexual satisfaction to woman. You will find the secrets revealed in ‘FEMALE SEXUAL SATISFACTION’. See the right sidebar ‘ALL TOPICS’ and on the menu at TOP of this page.
Get useful tips to maximize happiness at http://mydoctortells.com and at http://doctortells.blogspot.in
DR. ASHOK KOPARDE

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Why do I get heartbeating sounds?

QUESTION:
dear sir i feel sometime that my heart beat very rapidly and i have listen as well i do gererally somke as well what it cause why this happen to me

REPLY: mydoctortells
Hi Amit,
This is called anxiety. This happens when mind is nervous/tense/scared. Take the stress test given on this site HEALTHMETER© http://mydoctortells.com/healthmeter/.

I recommend that you meet your family doctor.
To rule out thyroid problems you may see the details given at GENERAL MEDICINE FACTS http://mydoctortells.blogspot.in

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Name: Ashok Koparday

Consultant in Sexual Medicine and Marriage Counselor

Medical Director

SAMADHAN INDIA

SEXUAL HEALTH CENTER SAMADHAN INDIA

Address:
90 Feet Road,
Ghatkopar (East),Mumbai
400077 INDIA.
Mobile: +91 9867788877

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24 thoughts on “FAQ”

  1. hello sir
    meri umar 27y hai mai aapne mausa-mausi jinki umar 47-38 hai ke sath rah kar study karata hu mujhe kisi prakar ki buri lat nahi hai unke do child ladka-ladki hai jinki umar 13-11 hai mausi ko kam par mausa ji ko roj sex karane ki aadat hai humare room ek-dusare se lage hue hai kabhi-kabhi unke kam kida ke karan mujhe pareshani hoti hai bachho ko mere room me shift kar dete hai unke child mujhe sawal jawab karate hai ki mom-dad dono ek room me kya karate hai mai unki bato ko taal deta hu sir ji ess pareshani ke samabandh mai apni baat mausa-mausi ke samne kaise rakhu please sir ji kripa karke uchit samadhan bataye

  2. hello,sir
    meri umar 27y hai mai apne relative ke yaha rah kar study karta hu meri samasaya yah meri relative husband-wife hai jinki umar 47-38 hai gahr me do room lage hue bane hue hai mere relative jinko ki roj sex karate hai aur bachhe jinki umar 11-14 saal ke hai unko mere room me adjest kar dete hai jiske karan mera dhyan kabhi-kabhi unki kam kida ko sunnane ko ho jata hai sir ji mai apni ess samasaya ko kaise aapne relative ko batau kripa karake aap meri ess samasaya ka nirakaran bataye jisse mera pura dhayan unki kam kida ke bajay mere pura dhayan study par kendrit ho ya unhe mai sahi sex salah de saku

  3. hello sir,
    meri umar 45 saal hai wife ki 38 hai kahate hai ki rij sex karane se body healthy rahati hai par sir ji meri samasaya yah hai ki humare 13-15 saal ke do bachhe ve humare sath sote hai aur mujhe daily sex karane ki aadat thi jo bachho ke karan kam ho gayi week me 1-2 bar ho jati hai agar mere sex karne me 50% kami ho jati hai to kya sir ji iska mere health par koi problem to na hoga agar hogi to uchit samadhan jaroor bataye

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    Sir,

    I am suffering from the same problem i.e. nightfall or nocturnal dreams since the last 8 years and now a days the frequency of nightfall has increased with rapid pace that it occurs three to four times in a week. I am 24 year old and my health is good with 73 kg of weight. I have not consulted with any doctor so far with regard to nightfall problem and my problem is due to excessive masturbation in the adolescence period.
    Now, I do want to ask , Is this a symptom of serious illness or i should take it for granted.

    Please help, I will be thankful to you with the depth of my heart

  5. Sir,

    I am suffering from the same problem i.e. nightfall or nocturnal dreams since the last 8 years and now a days the frequency of nightfall has increased with rapid pace that it occurs three to four times in a week. I am 24 year old and my health is good with 73 kg of weight. I have not consulted with any doctor so far with regard to nightfall problem and my problem is due to excessive masturbation in the adolescence period.
    Now, I do want to ask , Is this a symptom of serious illness or i should take it for granted.

    Please help, I will be thankful to you with the depth of my heart.

  6. I am newly married since 1 month. I am not sucessing to insert penis in vagina for first time because vagina is very tight. what are way to do this safely and in short time. plz give solution as early as possible.

  7. sir I’m male l have self sex with my hand past four years but I have a problem in last 6 months… my penis was not proper erection during my self sex ,I’m really worried about this problem ,pls will cure in this problem??.

  8. Sir muje swapdosh ki problem hai 5 years se or me 5 years se hastmatun bhi kr rha hu meri age 21 years hai kya me shadi ke bad wife ko santust kr paunga

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