Measuring the penis

To get the most accurate measurements for an individual’s penis size, it has been recommended that several measurements be taken at different times, preferably with different erections on different days. The measurements are then to be averaged together. This is to account for what may be natural variability in size due to factors such as arousal level, time of day, room temperature, frequency of sexual activity, and unreliability of the measurement methods

Length

The length can be measured with the subject standing and the penis held parallel to the floor. The penis is measured along the top, from the base to the tip.

Circumference

Penis girth is the measurement of the circumference of the completely erect penis. It is variously quoted as an average of three measurements: just below the glans penis, in the middle of the shaft, and at the base.

A penis must be completely erect in order to obtain an accurate measurement.

Erect Penis

At least one Brazilian doctor resorted to injecting penises with drugs to induce erection, which gave more consistent results.
Some clinicians measure the penis by stretching the flaccid penis as far as comfortably possible.
A study conducted by LifeStyles Condoms found an average of 14.9 cm (5.9 in) with a standard deviation of 2.1 cm (0.8 in) (measured by staff).
The purpose of this study was to ensure properly sized condoms were available.

A review published in 2007 issue of BJU International, have shown that average erect penis length is 14–16 cm (5.5-6.3 in) and its
girth is 12–13 cm (4.7-5.1 in).
This paper compares results of twelve studies conducted on different populations in several countries.

Flaccid length

One study found the mean flaccid penis length to be 3.5 inches (8.9 cm) (measured by staff). A review of several studies have shown average flaccid length to be 9–10 cm. Length of the flaccid penis does not necessarily correspond to length of the erect penis; some smaller flaccid penises can grow much larger, and some larger flaccid penises cannot grow much larger.

Stretched length

Flaccid penis length is a poor estimate of erect length, a better estimate is stretched length, that is 12–13 cm, as shown in review by Wylie and Erdley.

Human Penis Size

Try this approach instead:, “Well, here’s another perspective or point of view…”

2)
“You always…” or “You never…” Starting a sentence with either of these phrases is guaranteed to raise tempers.

Be specific. Talk about a particular incident. Rather than complaining, “You never listen to me,” try something like this: “When you respond that way, I conclude you don’t want to understand me in the way I’d like you to.”.

3)
“You really know how to hurt me.” This line suggests that the other person is intentionally trying to hurt you. It also implies that someone other than yourself has power over what you feel. It places you in the role of emotional “victim.” But you’re not a victim–you have choices whether or not to be hurt by someone’s actions.

Try this instead: “What you just said/did really stung. It was especially painful because…”

4)
“How can you be that way?” This isn’t really a question. It’s an assault that implies, “You’re a terrible/insensitive person, and you should be ashamed of yourself.”

Try this instead: “When you did/said that, it really hurt. I don’t know if you intended to hurt me, or if you were frustrated yourself about something. Can you help me understand why you did that?”

This is communication under stress at its highest level. You not only avoid defending yourself by explaining the pain you are in, you actually investigate the distress your partner is in. This can make it much easier for your partner to hear the impact of what they did on you.

5)
Of course, these are mild, compared to the doozies we come up with in the heat of an argument. But for love to flourish and deepen, for healthy and long-lasting relationships, we need to learn how to incorporate acceptance, self-understanding, compassion and tolerance into our conflicts.

And maybe one-liners like, “I love you!”

Authors
Peter Pearson, Ph.D., and his wife Dr. Ellyn Bader – authors, speakers and therapists – are founders of The Couples Institute in Menlo Park, CA.”
http://www.couplesinstitute.com

IMPORTANCE OF BODY LANGUAGE

MALE AND FEMALE ATTRACTION
MALE ATTRACTS BY HIS BODY LANGUAGE
Body language is an essential means of generating attraction between a girl and a boy.
Body language that works for attracting is described below.

First is eye contact. Here a lot is communicated. It signals “I am interested in you”.
Example: winking is one form of eve teasing.
Next is proximity. Being more closer in work, college, home environment is another method of communicating intimacy.

The subtle body language that most people do not know are as follows.
The male walks with chest forward, leisurely pace, hands hanging loose, self confident, care free gait is attractive to women. He should not look at the woman.

FEMALE ATTRACTS BY HER BODY LANGUAGE
The female who wants to attract man has been recently to the beauty parlor for facial, waxing and other treatment. She wears well chosen make up, has well styled hair, gorgeous short dress (sleeveless, short skirt), expensive accessories like purse and mobile.

The neck of the dress often shows cleavage.

She has chosen a particular perfume.

MALE ATTITUDE
Male’s body language is arrogant, confident personality and attitude display.

FEMALE BEAUTY
Female’s body language is on attractive looks

THE BODY LANGUAGE THAT REPELS
PUT OFFS
Body language frowning, poorly dressed, no eye contact, bent posture, anxious face are put offs.

OTHER SEX
Body language is invariably used by homosexuals, gay as well as lesbians. The innuendos convey message that I desire you (person of the same sex)

The castrated male (hijra, eunuch) looks like a man and dresses like a woman. Works as commercial sex worker. They have characteristic body language.

ILLNESS
Illnesses, physical and mental can be diagnosed by body language. Alcoholic has typical easily identifiable body language. Handicaps, like blind, have a staring in the space type of body language.

AGING
The aging process causes changes in posture (osteoporosis), skin (wrinkles).

STAGES OF LIFE
Infancy, toddler, teenager, youth, adult, aged adult, old people have significant different body languages, whereby they get different treatment from the society.

AFFLUENT ~ POOR
The wealthy and the person in rags have different body language.

OCCUPATION
Armed forces people have there own body language. A person using such a body language can impersonate as police officer or army man.

COUNTRIES
Body language varies in people of different countries.
This may be significant for study by anthropologists.

• Pressure in the lower pelvis

• Painful urination (dysuria)

• Frequent or urgent need to urinate
• Need to urinate at night (nocturia)
• Abnormal urine color (cloudy)
• Blood in the urine (hematuria)
• Foul or strong urine odor

WHO SUFFERS FROM HONEYMOON CYSTITIS
The condition primarily affects women, but can affect either sex and all age groups.
WHAT ARE THE OTHER NAMES OF HONEY MOON CYSTITIS
The adjective ‘Honeymoon’ is attached to this lower urinary tract infection because it often happens during honeymoon of the newly wed couple.
  OMG!   Did you say Oh! My God!
“Honeymoon Cystitis”.
Honeymoon urethritis is the medically appropriate term when the symptoms as mentioned above are noticed during honeymoon period. 

• Honeymoonitis,

•  Honeymoon Disease,
• Honeymoon Bladder,
• honeymooner’s cystitis 
• honeymoon syndrome.
• honeymooncystitis
• honey moon cystitis.

WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF HONEYMOON CYSTITIS
Frequent or prolonged sexual activity, as would typically be expected in the honeymoon period of a marriage is supposed to be the cause of triggering Honeymoon urethritis. The culprit, spoilsport, is most often the microorganism called coliform bacteria. No foreign organisms are implicated. It is the local bacteria that cause urethritis. These colliform bacteria get transferred from around anal region to the urethra, then to the bladder.
 
WHAT ARE TYPES OF HONEYMOON CYSTITIS SYNDROME
There are several types of cystitis of which bacterial cystitis is the commonest. 
Hemorrhagic cystitis and Interstitial cystitis are rare. 
HOW TO PREVENT HONEYMOON CYSTITIS
CLEAN: Cleaning of male and female genitals with soap and water (not antiseptic please) before sexual activity is recommended. Taking bath before sex is also wonderful.
HYGIENE: Daily during bath and after defecation as well as urination it is advisable to wash with clean water if not water and soap and dry the genitals before parking them inside the clothes.  
 
Honeymoon cystitis | Urinary Tract Infections | UTI | Urethritis | Bladder Infections
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DEFINITION OF PREMATURE EJACULATION

DEFINITION PE

Premature ejaculation (PE) is recognized to be the most common male sexual disorder. PE provides difficulties for professionals who treat this condition because there is neither a universally accepted definition nor a medication approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Despite these shortcomings, physicians continue to diagnose their patients with PE according to major guidelines and treat them with either behavioral therapies or off-label medications. This review focuses on current and emerging treatment options and medications for PE. Advantages and limitations of each treatment option are discussed in the light of current published peer-reviewed literature.

SOURCE

Premature ejaculation: CURRENT AND FUTURE TREATMENTS

Levent Gurkan, Matthew Oommen and Wayne J G Hellstrom
Section of Andrology, Department of Urology, Tulane University Health Sciences Center, New Orleans, LA 70112, USA
Correspondence: Wayne J G Hellstrom, MD, FACS, Section of Andrology, Department of Urology, Tulane University Health Sciences Center, 1430 Tulane Ave., SL-42, New Orleans, LA 70112, USA. Fax: +1-504-988-5059. E-mail: whellst@tulane.edu
Asian Journal of Andrology (2008) 10, 102–109; doi:10.1111/j.1745-7262.2008.00369.x

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Why penis skin does not come down?

REPLY
It is a natural variation among males.

Most of the people can retract their prepuce even when the penis is tumescent. Some are not able to retract even during detumescent state.

Even if the penis does not come down it does not impede sex.
Only precaution to be taken is to bring back the skin forwards if at all it comes back. Otherwise it causes paraphimosis.

In infants if there is difficulty passing urine, which is called as phimosis, circumcision is done.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_penis_skin_does_not_come_down

[B]Does circumsiation has effect on sexual pleasure?

Medical Fact
Circumcision does not diminish or increase sexual pleasure for man and woman.

Belief
If one believes it increases or decrease sexual pleasure she/he may experience accordingly.

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SEE LINKS
http://mydoctortells.com/paraphimosis/
http://mydoctortells.com/circumcision-research/

http://mydoctortells.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/male-genitals-mydoctortellscom.jpg

http://doctortells.blogspot.com/2007/11/foreskin-penis.html

http://doctortells.blogspot.com/2008/08/circumcision.html

http://doctortells.blogspot.com/2010/04/picture-my-doctor.html

SEE PICTURES
[1] UNCIRCUMCISED PENIS
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LZ49N0–IP0/SLI4NE1Qn5I/AAAAAAAAA5k/x5uCRkFEC9M/s1600-h/uncircumcised.png

[2] CIRCUMCISED PENIS
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LZ49N0–IP0/SLGQ6k9gATI/AAAAAAAAA5c/3QWiVgTg6JQ/s1600-h/glans.jpg

[3] ANIMATED PICTURE FORESKIN SLIDING BACK AND FORTH
http://doctortells.blogspot.com/2007/11/foreskin-penis.html

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LZ49N0–IP0/R0r0E6b47nI/AAAAAAAAAR8/2Sk9oqaFfXg/s1600-h/foreskin_animated.edu.gif

[4] PARTS OF FORESKIN
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LZ49N0–IP0/R0rwkqb47mI/AAAAAAAAAR0/87Dw3G2IoJ0/s1600-h/foreskin2.png

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I or she or he SHOULD know.
Accept that you don’t know the sex encyclopedia. You don’t have enough sexperience with the chosen one.
So, do not feel you are imbecile or impotent.
Do not get dejected.
That means if you goof up somewhere in sex play, don’t rush to call Dr. Ashok Koparday.
It is not uncommon to goof up. It’s useful to know avoidable blunders of newly wed.

We had a perfectly wonderful honeymoon, except that we did not have sex. _avk

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This is how they goof up

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I couldn’t get it up on the FIRST NIGHT (SUHAGRAT). Damn it.
Read this.
To put it in brief (pun intended), do not attempt insertion on the first few nights after the weddingas the traditional Hindu marriage rituals are pretty exhausting. You will be tired. So embrace each other, do some foreplay and take rest.
If you take my word that should be enough. However, if you are hooked on to old beliefs surrounding to SUHAGRAT you will immensely benefit from reading this.
LESSON ONE
LESSON TWO
LESSON THREE

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I do not know why (you can guess it though), but it is so common that women will have their menses during honeymoon. Deduct those many days from your itinerary.
Your first experience; honey tastes bitter.
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The second experience of bitter honey is honeymoon cystitis.
The correct word would be honeymoon urethritis.
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What happens?
Symptoms are your wife complains of burning sensation when passing urine. The frequency of urination increases. This can be pretty distressing for her. The husband becomes the brave man who gets her to a doctor. The urinary tract infection is well taken care of. That’s how you may spend precious days of your honeymoon.
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How to Prevent honeymoon cystitis?
Maintain good hygiene of vulva (the external female genitalia). Just particular care with soap and water daily while bathing is a good life time habit. If you do not do it, start.
Should I carry medicines for honey moon cystitis?
It would be prudent to carry or know some medicines that are given as a treatment for honeymoon cystitis (urethritis, lower urinary tract infection)
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Yeh! the following may appear elementary, but why not have a glance quickly the paragraph below.
Why do women get Honey moon cystitis?
The external female genitals, vulva, that lies between two legs exactly opposite to the top of the skull. The vaginal opening is below the urinary opening. Both are enclosed within labia minora, (Minor lips) and further ahead two V shaped pads labia majora (Major lips). While attempting insertion there is some pressure and rubbing on and in the external reproductive organs of the female (vulva). Microorganisms flare up resulting in lower urinary tract infection.

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Now let me shift attention to the guys. Did anybody tell you that you can be damned while trying to put on the condom?
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How to wear a condom?
Why should I know how to wear a condom?
Very often while putting on the condom, the attention gets shifted and focused on wearing the condom resulting in loss of erection. This pisses him off. He may feel utterly frustrated if he makes desperate attempts to get an erection. Know that erection cannot be willed. It does not contain voluntary muscles like those in your hand. With voluntary muscles you can lift your hand at your will.

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Erection happens only in the presence of sexual mood and not as and when you wish. eg. Even if you want to get an erection, you won’t get it when in you are in serious business meeting. If you are dejected any amount of trying is counterproductive. ‘Trying’ with her or your help is a sure recipe for not getting back erection.

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What do I do?

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Keep your Cool
At the critical time just leave attempting the insertion aspect. Stay confident. Begin talking, kissing or cuddling as you did when you began. You are bound to get an erection even if you do not want it. Important is to know that erection can come and go and therefore it is important to be confident.
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Allowing sexual fantasies.
Another method is to allow yourself sexual fantasies that you know have excited you before when masturbating. Do not tell your fantasy to the lady. It is just imagination that gets you aroused due to which you get erection.

How to prevent losing of erection midway as while wearing a condom?
You would neither want feeling imbecile or impotent. So do this.
Read the details of ‘How to wear a condom’ that comes with the condom box.
Practice using condom beforehand.
Before marriage or whenever you can, buy condom and practice wearing it during erection when you are alone, like when you are masturbating.

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Also
You may lose the sexual mood because of the interruption caused by wearing condom.
Any other interruption like a door bell or mobile phone ringing is as bad.
Here is a picture joke about wearing condoms.
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Pictures showing how to wear a condom?
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