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		<title>breast-implants-france</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 05:31:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of the 30,000 fitted in France, more than 1,000 have ruptured. Make sure of the quality and necessity of Breast Implants says Dr. Ashok Koparde, leading Sexologist of Mumbai, India.]]></description>
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We know that opting for breast implants is one of the most sought-after cosmetic procedure by women globally.</p>
<p>But have you heard of a faulty breast implant epidemic? Well that seems to be a case sweeping France. That&#8217;s because French authorities are now asking 30,000 women to have their breast implants removed because of unauthorised silicone gel that is potentially subject to rupture.</p>
<p>These faulty breast implants, provided by a French company have proven to have a higher rupture rate than other types of implants. Already 2,000 women in France have complained to the police about them. Meanwhile, a criminal investigation into these potentially dangerous implants and their provider has been launched.</p>
<p>The implants by French firm Poly Implant Prothese (PIP) were banned last year after they were found to contain a non-medical grade silicone filler. Of the 30,000 fitted in France, more than 1,000 have ruptured.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Source:</strong><br />
<a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health/France-recalling-breast-implants/articleshow/11193277.cms">[1] The Times Of India</a></p>
<p>http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health/France-recalling-breast-implants/articleshow/11193277.cms</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-16311763">[2] BBC NEWS</a></p>
<p>http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-16311763</p></blockquote>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 18:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<title>extramarital-affair-question</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 18:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your Question: Feeling guilty of commiting sin&#8230;.plz help?Me (30) went outstation on office job where stayed at the house of mama-in-law&#8217;s home. During those 03 days mama was also out and I spent with mami-in law, who is aged 52 and mother of two elder children staying away. Due to cold &#038; only one room [...]]]></description>
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<b>Your Question:</b></p>
<p>Feeling guilty of commiting sin&#8230;.plz help?Me (30) went outstation on office job where stayed at the house of mama-in-law&#8217;s home. During those 03 days mama was also out and I spent with mami-in law, who is aged 52 and mother of two elder children staying away.<br />
Due to cold &#038; only one room heater was in working condition, motherly mami-in law slept with me. Warm physical contacts in the bed lead to tight hugging, fondling and big breast comforting excited to have sex with her- twice in the first night.<br />
I felt bad of the incident. But she took it casually and was very provocative that lead to have several round of sex with her in the next two days- both at daytime &#038; at night.<br />
After spending those 03 days in a total emotional blind state, Im feeling very guilty of commiting sin of illicit sex with motherly mami-in-law. Im also filling shaky of doing inter-course with my wife. Always suffering from huge sense of gulity&#8230;<br />
Plz plz advice, how can I get rid of this. Should I tell my wife?<br />
Asked by [image] Param (name changed)</p>
<p><b>Your Answer:</b><br />
You are suffering alone. Why tell your wife and make your wife suffer too.<br />
These accidental tempting attractions leading to sex are not uncommon. If you are regretting that is your punishment, which will last for life time. Be kind to yourself now and<b> do all duties that you are supposed to do at home.</b> When you feel better emotionally resume sex with wife.<br />
<b>Take this opportunity to give up any other bad things you may have and start all good, noble things. Take this opportunity to begin better more satisfying life.</b></p>
<p>Source(s):<br />
FREE GOOD ONLINE COUNSELING SITE FOR TEENS</p>
<p>http://mydoctortells.com</p>
<p>Answer by Dr. Ashok Koparday</p>
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		<title>sex-and-depression-2</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 13:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;DON&#8217;T HESITATE TO TELL YOUR DOCTOR . . . &#8221; Brought to you by Dr. Ashok Koparday CONTACT ask[at]mydoctortells[dot]com Office +91 9867788877 Sexologist, Ghatkopar East, Mumbai, INDIA If you are clinically depressed and also experiencing sexual problems, you&#8217;re not alone. Sexual problems, such as erectile dysfunction (ED) or an inability to have an orgasm, often [...]]]></description>
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<b>&#8220;DON&#8217;T HESITATE TO TELL YOUR DOCTOR . . . &#8221;<br />
Brought to you by Dr. Ashok Koparday<br />
CONTACT ask[at]mydoctortells[dot]com<br />
Office  +91 9867788877<br />
Sexologist, Ghatkopar East, Mumbai, INDIA</p>
<p></b></p>
<p>If you are clinically depressed and also experiencing sexual problems, you&#8217;re not alone. Sexual problems, such as erectile dysfunction (ED) or an inability to have an orgasm, often co-exist with depression. The good news is that doctors can usually treat sexual problems that coincide with depression.</p>
<p>What is the connection between sexual problems and depression?</p>
<p>Think of the brain as a highly sensitive sex organ. Sexual desire startsin the brain and works its way down. That&#8217;s becauseof special brain chemicals known as neurotransmitters. These chemicals increase communication between brain cells and trigger more blood flow to the sex organs. The problem is, with depression and other mood disorders, these brain chemicals are imbalanced.</p>
<p>Many men and women with depression tell of having low or no sexual desire. And that puts a tremendous strain on intimate relationships .</p>
<p>Do antidepressants cause sexual problems?</p>
<p>As helpful as antidepressants are in boosting a person&#8217;s mood or sense of self-worth, some types of antidepressants &#8212; for example, the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) &#8212; have undesirable side effects. Those side effects can result in sexual problems.</p>
<p>Antidepressants help boost mood in people with depression by altering the balance of brain chemicals. But the same chemicals are involved in the sexual response. Antidepressantschange that balance too, often causing sexual dysfunction. The sexual side effects of antidepressants appear toincrease as the dose of medication increases.</p>
<p>What types of sexual problems are associated with antidepressants?</p>
<p>Sexual problems with antidepressants may include:</p>
<p>an inability to initiate or enjoy sex</p>
<p>erectile dysfunction (ED) for men</p>
<p>decreased sexual desire</p>
<p>an inability to achieve an orgasm</p>
<p>How are sexual problems with depression treated?</p>
<p>There are ways to manage the sexual side effects of antidepressant medicines without compromising treatment. For example, because some newer antidepressants work differently, they may not affect sexual function. So your doctor may switch you to another type of antidepressant, one that will have less effect on your ability to be intimate. There are also other medications you can take along with your antidepressant that may improve sexual function. The catch is you have to talk to your doctor to get help.</p>
<p>Without knowing there&#8217;s a sexual problem, your doctor can&#8217;t do anything about it. Talk openly with both your partner and your doctor. Then ask your doctor what might help your situation.</p>
<p>Once they realize that the sexual problems associated with the medications can be treated, most people taking antidepressants choose to continue taking them.</p>
<p>Source and copyright</p>
<p>http://netdoctor.co.uk</p>
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		<title>women-are-mystery</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 18:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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<b> What is the greatest mystery known to man?<br />
&#8220;Women. They are a complete mystery,&#8221;<br />
says Stephen Hawking.</b><br />
He is one of the greatest living scientists, who uncovered the secrets of the universe in his book, &#8216;A brief history of time&#8217;.</p>
<p>When asked what occupies his thoughts for most of his waking hours, he answered that women are the greatest mystery.</p>
<p>The quantum physicist Stephen Hawking spoke in an interview with <b>New Scientist</b> on his 70 th birthday before the international conference held in his honor at Cambridge University, where he used to be the Lucasian professor of mathematics.</p>
<blockquote><p>
Professor Hawking married Jane Wilde in 1965, and she cared for him until 1991, when the couple separated reportedly because of the pressures of fame and his increasing disability. They had three children: Robert, Lucy &#8211; now a popular author, and Timothy.</p>
<p>The scientist then married his nurse, Elaine Mason in 1995 and filed for divorce in 2006.</p></blockquote>
<p>(c) published in &#8216;Mumbai Mirror&#8217; Friday January 06, 2012.</p>
<hr />
Brought to you by Dr. Ashok Koparday, who is a marriage counselor and sex therapist practising in Mumbai.<br />
Dr. Ashok Koparday<br />
is a medical doctor who was teaching at Seth G. S. Medical College affiliated to Mumbai&#8217;s K.E.M. Hospital, University of Mumbai.</p>
<p>See:</p>
<p><a href ="http://mydoctortells.com/"> www.mydoctortells.com</a>,<br />
<a href="http://doctortells.blogspot.com/">http://doctortells.blogspot.com</a></p>
<p><a href="http://wiki.answers.com/Q/User:Drashok"> http://wiki.answers.com/Q/User:Drashok</a></p>
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		<title>rape</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 05:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Social, Moral, and Health Education should consist of Sex Education.
Best and FIRST online HELPLINE for Sexual Education and Sex Dysfunctions is http://mydoctortells.com. <a href="http://mydoctortells.com/about-doctor/">ABOUT THE DOCTOR SEE HERE. </a> ]]></description>
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<blockquote><p><strong>29-year-old held for rape </strong><br />
Pradeep Gupta TNN</p>
<p>Kalyan: The Mahatma Phule police on Thursday arrested a 29-year-old for allegedly raping a 25-year-old woman over the last six years by repeatedly offering to marry her and then backtracking.<br />
    The accused, Subodh Metharam, allegedly got the victim pregnant thrice and forced her to undergo an abortion each time. Metharam got engaged to another woman in March. </p></blockquote>
<p>SOURCE:</p>
<h2>THE TIMES OF INDIA</h2>
<p>http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Client.asp?Daily=TOIM&#038;showST=true&#038;login=default&#038;pub=TOI&#038;Enter=true&#038;Skin=TOINEW&#038;AW=1324616576674</p>
<p>Social, Moral, and Health Education should consist of Sex Education.<br />
Best and FIRST online HELPLINE for Sexual Education and Sex Dysfunctions is <a href="http://mydoctortells.com">http://mydoctortells.com. </a></p>
<p>Dr. Ashok KopardayMBBS, FC SEPI</p>
<p>Medical Director<br />
Samadhan India<br />
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in<br />
Sex, Marriage, Relationships</p>
<p>Ex. Teaching Faculty<br />
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and<br />
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals<br />
University of Mumbai, India</p>
<p>Member: Indian Medical Association</p>
<p>Registered Maharashtra Medical Council</p>
<p>Member: Family Planning Association of India</p>
<p>Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]</p>
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		<title>why-women-in-india-apply-dot-on-forehead</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 23:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[[1] The significance of the dot on forehead of an unmarried woman is to indicate she is devoted to Lord. After marriage it is to ostentatiously convey her sole devotion and duty towards her husband as an image of the Lord to facilitate her spiritual growth. The dot is not worn when the woman becomes [...]]]></description>
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The significance of the dot on forehead of an unmarried woman is to indicate she is devoted to Lord. After marriage it is to ostentatiously convey her sole devotion and duty towards her husband as an image of the Lord to facilitate her spiritual growth. The dot is not worn when the woman becomes a widow symbolizing that she is no more interested in worldly beauty and released from worldly duty. Now the widow exclusively lives life of prayers and spiritual studies like a monk.</p>
<p>Dot on forehead is applied by men as well as women and other reasons for the dot are as follows.</p>
<p>[2]<br />
Exactly behind the region of dot, which is in between the brows, in the brain, is located the Pituitary gland, which is the Queen of the endocrine glands of the human body, controller of emotions and well being.</p>
<p>[3]<br />
When you look at the face of person with dot the attention rivets on the dot thus disfigurement of the face, the like and dislike thus triggered is out of focus.</p>
<p>[4]<br />
When spiritual masters communicate with the devotees who are also bearing dot on their forehead as the spiritual master does there is kind of intuitive transmission of knowledge.</p>
<p>[5]<br />
It is the same colour and material that is applied to the Lord during daily prayer and this mark of auspiciousness is applied on one&#8217;s forehead after every prayer of the Lord. It helps rememberance of Lord.</p>
<p>[6]<br />
It is reminder of good faith for both the speaker and the listener and augers well for holiness in day to day transaction.</p>
<p>[7]<br />
If nothing at all of this is acceptable you may consider it as a mark of beauty.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 18:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3>5 SEX TIPS</h3>
<p><b><br />
WHEN HUSBAND WANTS SEX, BUT WIFE DOESN&#8217;T WANT . . .<br />
QUESTION</b><br />
What&#8217;s the best way to avoid or resolve problems in a marriage when you grow apart sexually?<br />
&#8230;for example if one wants it more while the other wants it less. Or if one wants to be a lot more experimental while the other becomes more conservative. Or simply something like one wanting it in the morning and the other in the evening. If these feelings or preferences are sincere but at odds, what is the best way to keep it from becoming a problem while satisfying both spouses?<br />
REPLIED BY DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY. DR. KOPARDE IS A SEX DOCTOR WHO PRACTISES IN MUMBAI.<br />
THIS IS ANSWERED TO QUERY POSTED AT HTTP://ANSWERS.YAHOO.COM WHERE DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY CONTRIBUTES HIS MEDICAL EXPERTISE.</p>
<p><b> ANSWER </b><br />
Hi,<br />
This variation/experimentation in sex is healthy.</p>
<p>Poor cooperation from the girl (now she is a wife) is commonly observed disparity in our practise as Marriage Counselors.</p>
<p><b> ONE SIGNIFICANT REASON IS </b> most men (husbands) just don&#8217;t ignite the romance, the passion essential for healthy sex play in wives, though same husbands can still trigger rocking passion in romantic extramarital relation.</p>
<p><b> SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM IS </b><br />
[1]<br />
Ensure that your wife is highly sexually aroused. Thoroughly enjoyable Sex is possible only if she is in  <b> romantic mood. </b><br />
To accomplish this read <b>11 LOVE SUTRAS at http://mydoctortells.com.</b></p>
<p>[2]<br />
<b>GOOD PHYSICAL HEALTH</b><br />
Then, ensure that her physical health is good. Your wife must get enough rest, especially if she is working woman or/and has to care for infants. Make sure her Blood Hb levels are in normal range. </p>
<p>[3]<br />
Make sure you<b> resolve her demands/complaints, </b> which are often long standing and brazenly neglected. </p>
<p>All this package is carried by girl called as wife, but lover (extra marital relation) is not bogged by this.<br />
[4]<br />
<b> IMPORTANT: Don&#8217;t hesitate to see Marriage Counselor </b><br />
If you believe steps [1] to [3] are a tall order Marriage Counselor would be very helpful. The sooner you meet the Marriage Counselor the lesser is the bitterness in relationship.</p>
<blockquote><p>
Dr. Ashok Koparday is a renowned Sex Doctor presently practising in Mumbai.</p></blockquote>
<p>[5] Read the<b> Eleven Love Sutras</b> by Dr. Ashok Koparday. 11 LOVE SUTRAS contain collection of 11 important maxims or wisdom tips to keep love bubbling fresh in your marriage. The 11love sutras are derived from over 15 years of practice as Marriage Counselor and Sex Therapist.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 18:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[FAILING MARRIAGE COUNSELING HER QUESTION My Marriage is Falling Apart..? I thought I was married to a fairly decent man. Although most all times when we have a disagreement he reacts by stonewalling me for days. He can be stubborn.Yet most of our disagreements have not kept us apart for long. This last one is [...]]]></description>
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FAILING MARRIAGE COUNSELING</p>
<p><b>HER QUESTION</b><br />
My Marriage is Falling Apart..?</p>
<p>I thought I was married to a fairly decent man. Although most all times when we have a disagreement he reacts by stonewalling me for days. He can be stubborn.Yet most of our disagreements have not kept us apart for long. This last one is different. He moved out, stays in a local Motel (he has done this before) and has made no real attempt at reconciliation.even though what we fought about was something he did wrong. It has been over 1 month now and we are still apart. It confuses me because he makes excuses to call, like to ask about bills, bank accounts etc and no talk of a reconciliation. Last talk even close to it he did suggest we have a talk and we did. The thing is he always gets me back by denying what he did even though there is no explanation. So this time I told him to prove to me that it was not a lie and so far he has not made any further attempt to reconcile or to prove anything to me. I am afraid I have set a pattern for him to always get the easy way back to me by just accepting his apologies in the past. I want him back, yet no longer want to continue this pattern of conflict. He is the type of man that respect strength in a woman and takes advantage of weakness. So what I am asking is for someones advice on how to reverse his feeling of being able to take me for granted, thinking in time, on his time, whenever he is good and ready he will call me and then reconcile. I do not like this feeling that I get in the pit of my stomach of being taken for granted and each day that goes by <b>I am geting to the point of ending it all completing. I am trying for one last shot at trying to make things change.</b> Please no advice that says for me to call him. That is the problem I have always in the past given in and am now working at not having to do this all of the time. I am ready to just say forget it and to move on. I want to do what is right and save my marriage and am at my ropes end. Please help.</p>
<p>Additional Details</p>
<p>PLEASE DO NOT SUGGEST I CALL HIM, THAT IS WHAT I HAVE DONE IN THE PAST AND IT HAS NOT WORKED.</p>
<p>49 minutes ago</p>
<p>Please read my prior post for more informaiton on my situation.</p>
<p>44 minutes ago</p>
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Dr. Ashok Koparday<br />
 is a marriage counselor and sex therapist practising in Mumbai.<br />
Dr. Ashok Koparday<br />
 is a medical doctor who was teaching at Seth G. S. Medical College affiliated to Mumbai&#8217;s K.E.M. Hospital, University of Mumbai.</p>
<p>Source(s):</p>
<p><a href ="http://mydoctortells.com/">www.mydoctortells.com</a>,<br />
<a href="http://doctortells.blogspot.com/">http://doctortells.blogspot.com</a>
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<p><b>ANSWER</b><br />
It is important that you gather strength and support.<br />
There are 3 outcomes. </p>
<p>1. He returns and the pattern continues. You are fed up of this. Good.</p>
<p>2. Relation between you two improves for the better. Difficult if you want to do this yourself without the intervention of an expert.</p>
<p>3. You two separate.</p>
<p>For 2. See Counselor even if you have to go alone.</p>
<p>For 3. Important: Hope for the best, be prepared for the worst. </p>
<p><b>WHAT SHOULD I DO</b><br />
It is vital that at this stage:<br />
A. Don&#8217;t get pregnant.</p>
<p>B. Involve mutual friends and relatives. Let these people be strong, wise, trustworthy and your well wishers. Get as many well wishers as you can on your side. Draw few such people to mediate. You don&#8217;t go on bent knees, but you have your well wisher talk to your husband. Most likely he will come over to be with you. It is temporary victory. Some continuous supervision by well wisher is required.<br />
C.<br />
In India you can meet Marriage Counselor at the Family Planning Association of India Centers, which are in all major cities.</p>
<p>Take care of your health and Good Luck : )<br />
<a href="http://mydoctortells.com/about-doctor/"><br />
Read about Dr. Ashok Koparde.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India</dc:creator>
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<b>QUESTION</b><br />
Is there a chance im pregnant?<br />
Please help, my boyfriend has fingered me several times but im still getting adjusted to all of this, im not sure if he had *** on his hands right before he fingered me , i did jerk him off, the *** was on my hand but it might of accidentlywent on his too, please help, can i be pregnant, i dont know what to do , hearing all these other different stories are scaring me ! i just want to know the truth.</p>
<p>im still waiting for my period too, its supposed to be coming maybe in a week or 2 so im not so sure.</p>
<p>Asked 1 hour ago.</p>
<p>Dr. Ashok Koparday&#8217;s reply.</p>
<p><b>ANSWER </b></p>
<p>Try to remember when your expected period is due. My reply would have been specific and possibly reassuring if you were to tell me when you are to have periods, is your menstrual cycle regular, how many days you bleed.<br />
<b> RIGHT NOW</b> the option you have is to take Emergency Contraception. Please read about this &#8216;morning after pill&#8217;.</p>
<p><b> HOPE FOR THE BEST. BE PREPARED FOR THE WORST.</b><br />
If you don&#8217;t get periods on the expected date do Urine Pregnancy Test. </p>
<p>From the details you provided it is most likely that you have no pregnancy.</p>
<p>Urine Pregnancy Test will confirm or refute this.</p>
<p>Following this, if you find that you are pregnant you can take medicines for Medical Termination of Pregnancy under medical supervision.</p>
<p>Confide in well meaning mature adult friend or relative and get help. So many relatives and friends love you, care for you.</p>
<p>Go to qualified Gynecologist to seek clear guidance. Doctor is bound to keep secrecy. Law provides for legal permission for Medical Termination of Pregnancy irrespective of your age and circumstances. The doctor will educate you on methods of birth control that all youngsters must know.</p>
<p><b>Once and for all read and KNOW about simple methods of birth control like &#8216;calendar method&#8217;.</b></p>
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<a href="http://mydoctortells.com"> http://mydoctortells.com,</a></p>
<p>http://doctortells.blogspot.com</p>
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