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QUESTION:

I am a working women with three children. For the past 11 years my husband has been harrassing me mentally , physically. Unable to bear his torture at last I lodged a complaint in the police. Now he is getting bail and threatening to kill me and my kids. Where should I go. Please help me

REPLY
Hi,
1. External support
Please check out here http://mydoctortells.com/women-of-power-stree-mukti-sanghatana/
the article on organization that works for women welfare.

2. Internal Reconstruction
Know that you have formed a pattern in you that attracts physical, verbal abuse. Take help of materials as in Rhonda Byrne’s “THE SECRET” (DVD and book is available) http://www.thesecret.tv/

as well as

“YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE” -by Louis Hay http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYCamVx4fSQ.

You can heal your life gives penetrating insights into Louise’s fascinating personal story and the method of self affirmation that took her out of her personal misery.

3.
A method that I found works with people is to use SELF AFFIRMATIONS.
Say to yourself often “I enjoy healthy, loving relationship with my husband.”
“I respect myself.”
“I love myself.”

If self help method gives inadequate result and the fear or difficulty persists do visit a competent Counselor or Psychologist or Psychiatrist without fail. There expertize is unfortunately under utilized due to taboo.

Please let me know if you have any additional questions.

Dr. Ashok Koparday
Consultant
Family Life Management
Samadhan India: Center for Therapy, Education and Research in Sex, Marriage and Relationships.

READERS PLEASE GIVE SUGGESTIONS

Is legal separation – divorce – a solution?
Should she get Police Protection?
Should she involve relatives/office friends?

You go the Mrs. Bedi – Ex Commission of Police – Delhi. She is running this Aap Ki Kacheri program and she will be able to provide protection and some cash as help to you.
Syed Ehtram Ali
ammas.com

To Transform Yourself
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http://www.thesecret.tv/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjntHE4LJCQ
http://mydoctortells.com/women-of-power-stree-mukti-sanghatana/