5 SEX TIPS
WHEN HUSBAND WANTS SEX, BUT WIFE DOESN’T WANT . . .
QUESTION
What’s the best way to avoid or resolve problems in a marriage when you grow apart sexually?
…for example if one wants it more while the other wants it less. Or if one wants to be a lot more experimental while the other becomes more conservative. Or simply something like one wanting it in the morning and the other in the evening. If these feelings or preferences are sincere but at odds, what is the best way to keep it from becoming a problem while satisfying both spouses?
REPLIED BY DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY. DR. KOPARDE IS A SEX DOCTOR WHO PRACTISES IN MUMBAI.
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ANSWER
Hi,
This variation/experimentation in sex is healthy.
Poor cooperation from the girl (now she is a wife) is commonly observed disparity in our practise as Marriage Counselors.
ONE SIGNIFICANT REASON IS most men (husbands) just don’t ignite the romance, the passion essential for healthy sex play in wives, though same husbands can still trigger rocking passion in romantic extramarital relation.
SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM IS
[1]
Ensure that your wife is highly sexually aroused. Thoroughly enjoyable Sex is possible only if she is in romantic mood.
To accomplish this read 11 LOVE SUTRAS at http://mydoctortells.com.
[2]
GOOD PHYSICAL HEALTH
Then, ensure that her physical health is good. Your wife must get enough rest, especially if she is working woman or/and has to care for infants. Make sure her Blood Hb levels are in normal range.
[3]
Make sure you resolve her demands/complaints, which are often long standing and brazenly neglected.
All this package is carried by girl called as wife, but lover (extra marital relation) is not bogged by this.
[4]
IMPORTANT: Don’t hesitate to see Marriage Counselor
If you believe steps [1] to [3] are a tall order Marriage Counselor would be very helpful. The sooner you meet the Marriage Counselor the lesser is the bitterness in relationship.
Dr. Ashok Koparday is a renowned Sex Doctor presently practising in Mumbai.
[5] Read the Eleven Love Sutras by Dr. Ashok Koparday. 11 LOVE SUTRAS contain collection of 11 important maxims or wisdom tips to keep love bubbling fresh in your marriage. The 11love sutras are derived from over 15 years of practice as Marriage Counselor and Sex Therapist.