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FAQ-NEWLY-WED

Date last modified: January 16, 2016
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Best sexologist tells newly wed

how to enjoy great sex during honey moon/suhagarat with total confidence

Frequently Asked Questions and Solutions

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These are actual sex problems asked my real people

(names have been changed to respect privacy) and the replies are those given by Dr. Ashok Koparday, Consultant Sex Therapist, Marriage Counselor.

Best sexologist tells newly wed

how to enjoy great sex during honey moon/suhagarat with total confidence

Best sexologist tells newly wed

how to enjoy great sex during honey moon/suhagarat with total confidence

NOT ABLE TO DO SEX – NEWLYWED

Hi Doc,
I am 29 years old and married recently.
Tip of my penis is bending when I get erection and try to penetrate. My foreskin pulls back of Penis head completely without any problem but facing difficulty in penetrating due to bend. As I see the connection between the foreskin and penis tip is in tact (below the penis head) and it is one which is pulling the tip down and making a bend. I earlier had Erection (Stiffness) and premature ejaculation issue and I am taking ayurvedic medicine for the same. Those are normal medicines and have shown improvements. Recently I am not able to penetrate and this is causing tension in my marriage in the beginning itself.
Is there any cure for this without surgery?
If I force penetrate even though the tip is bent, will there be any damage done to penis or her vagina?

my doctor tells newly wed

how to enjoy great sex during honey moon/suhagarat with total confidence

Hi Nath,

Please see the topic of “NEWLYWED”. Such difficulty of insertion is not uncommon. Read about “unconsummated” and “vaginismus”.

Please read carefully the details given in http://mydoctortells.com.
If still you have doubts or questions feel free to ask me.

Dr. Ashok Koparday
Medical Director
Samadhan India: Center for Therapy, Education, Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships.

Ex Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital
and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals


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YOUR QUESTION TO DOCTOR
I’m 29 years old married before 2 weeks. I am not able to have intercourse. I lose my erection whenever I try to penetrate. However, the erection is fine and good for masturbation. My wife herself help me to masturbate and the erection and ejaculation are good and satisfactory. Also she feels pain in her vagina even on inserting a single finger of mine. Please advise as this has caused a lot of frustration for both of us.

my doctor tells newly wed

how to enjoy great sex during honey moon/suhagarat with total confidence

What you are describing is called unconsummated marriage. This is almost invariably due to ‘vaginismus’. It is not uncommon.

I have specially gathered these links for you. You will find the required details here along with the animated picture (small) and (large) that I have done myself.

Please feel free to let me know if you have any additional questions or issues.

  1. http://blogs.rediff.com/mydoctortells/2009/12/21/first-sex-how-to-do/
  2. http://mydoctortells.com/?s=vaginismus
  3. http://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-consequence/

  4. http://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-meaning/
  5. http://mydoctortells.com/sex-pain/
  6. http://mydoctortells.com/wrong-diagnosis-erectile-dysfunction-newly-wed/ What happens when newly married boy is not able to do sex?
  7. http://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-animated-picture-small/

  8. http://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-animated-picture-unconsummated/

  9. http://mydoctortells.com/?s=unconsummated

  10. http://mydoctortells.com/sex-how-to-insert-penis-in-vagina/

  11. http://mydoctortells.com/suhagrat-first-night2/

  12. http://mydoctortells.com/unconsummated-first-sex-no-penetration/ PROBLEMS IN HONEY MOON NEWLY WED

  13. SEE ANIMATED PICTURES BELOW
    http://mydoctortells.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/vaginismus_animatededu.gif ANIMATED PICTURE VAGINA OPENING CONTRACTION

  14. http://mydoctortells.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/vaginismussmallpictureanimatededu.gifVAGINSIMUS SMALL IMAGE

  15. http://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-animated-picture-small/vaginismussmallpictureanimatededu/

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Dr. (Mr.)
Ashok
Koparday

M.B.B.S., F.C.S.E.P. (International)
Accreditation: M.M.C. of India

Ex. Teaching Faculty

Seth G. S. Medical College

&
King Edward Memorial
K. E. M. Hospital
and
Grant Medical College
&
Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals,
University of Mumbai

Consultant


Psycho-Sexual Medicine
Marriage counselor

Member:Indian Medical Association
Fellow: Council of Sex Education & Parenthood (International)

Ashok Koparday

Sexual Health Best World Class Premier Treatment Center
Samadhan India

Consultant in Sexual Medicine
02225060061

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6 Replies to “FAQ-NEWLY-WED”

  1. Vishwas

    सर
    मेरे सादी को 6महीने हो गये मुझे 20दिन से मुझे परेसानी हो रही है सेक्स करने का बहूत ज्यादा मन करता है और जब करने जाता हु तो मेरा लिंग लूज हो जाता है मन करता है फिर भी कर नही पाता हू 24घंटे एक बार अच्छे से हो जाता है अगर उससे पहले मन करता लेकीन हो नही पाता है प्लीज बताइये मै क्या करु

    • Top Sexologist in Mumbai Ashok Koparday | Samadhan Health Studio: Sexual Health Best Treatment Clinic in Mumbai

      Namaste ji,
      Vivah purv ek tarah ka nervous hona, “tension” hona, “kya mai sex kar paunga?” aisi shanka hone say kaam bighadta hai.
      Aap nischint rehna. Samay par aap thik say sex kar paoge.
      Atma vishwas badega to aap nischit hi sex thik say kar sakoge. Ekhad baar shuru may thik tightness nahi ana, ityadi shuru may ho sakta hai. Jaise cycle chalate samay turant aap ko nahi chalana ata. Girne kay baad koshish karne say fir aa hi jata hai aur aap fir cycle ko market ki bheed may bhi chala sakte ho.
      LEKIN EKHAD BAAR SEX THIK NAHI HUA aap is tarah say chinta karne lago to fir ling may tanav aney may mushkil hogi.
      Kyon ki aap ko abhi anubhav nahi thoda tension hona ladke may swabhavik hai. Kya aap ko pata hai aap kay hone wale patni ko aap say teen guna jyada tension hai.
      Aap ki dawa hai BINDAS rehna. Yadi akele may hastamaithun kay samay tanav thik say ata hai to patni kay saath bhi ATMA VISHWAS hone par ling may tanav aayega. Yeh baat aur acchi tarah say

      samjhayee hai video kay saath

      http://mydoctortells.com/regain-erection-video/
      Dhyan say sambandhit sabhi jankari pad lena.
      Pranam
      Ashok Koparday

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