Manual for the Newly Wed
(Beginning with 5 most common tips for the exciting sexual play in the Newly Wed, the others are to follow.
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1 Do not get dejected if you are not perfect at sex.
2 Suhagrat/First Night after Wedding
3 Menses just following weddding
4 Honey moon urethritis/cystitis/female urinary tract infection
5 Goofing up while wearing condom
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I or she or he SHOULD know.
Accept that you don’t know the sex encyclopedia. You don’t have enough sexperience with the chosen one.
So, do not feel you are imbecile or impotent.
Do not get dejected.
That means if you goof up somewhere in sex play, don’t rush to call Dr. Ashok Koparday.
It is not uncommon to goof up. It’s useful to know avoidable blunders of newly wed.
We had a perfectly wonderful honeymoon, except that we did not have sex. _avk
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This is how they goof up
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I couldn’t get it up on the FIRST NIGHT (SUHAGRAT). Damn it.
Read this.
To put it in brief (pun intended), do not attempt insertion on the first few nights after the weddingas the traditional Hindu marriage rituals are pretty exhausting. You will be tired. So embrace each other, do some foreplay and take rest.
If you take my word that should be enough. However, if you are hooked on to old beliefs surrounding to SUHAGRAT you will immensely benefit from reading this.
LESSON ONE
LESSON TWO
LESSON THREE
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I do not know why (you can guess it though), but it is so common that women will have their menses during honeymoon. Deduct those many days from your itinerary.
Your first experience; honey tastes bitter.
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The second experience of bitter honey is honeymoon cystitis.
The correct word would be honeymoon urethritis.
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What happens?
Symptoms are your wife complains of burning sensation when passing urine. The frequency of urination increases. This can be pretty distressing for her. The husband becomes the brave man who gets her to a doctor. The urinary tract infection is well taken care of. That’s how you may spend precious days of your honeymoon.
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How to Prevent honeymoon cystitis?
Maintain good hygiene of vulva (the external female genitalia). Just particular care with soap and water daily while bathing is a good life time habit. If you do not do it, start.
Should I carry medicines for honey moon cystitis?
It would be prudent to carry or know some medicines that are given as a treatment for honeymoon cystitis (urethritis, lower urinary tract infection)
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Yeh! the following may appear elementary, but why not have a glance quickly the paragraph below.
Why do women get Honey moon cystitis?
The external female genitals, vulva, that lies between two legs exactly opposite to the top of the skull. The vaginal opening is below the urinary opening. Both are enclosed within labia minora, (Minor lips) and further ahead two V shaped pads labia majora (Major lips). While attempting insertion there is some pressure and rubbing on and in the external reproductive organs of the female (vulva). Microorganisms flare up resulting in lower urinary tract infection.
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Now let me shift attention to the guys. Did anybody tell you that you can be damned while trying to put on the condom?
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How to wear a condom?
Why should I know how to wear a condom?
Very often while putting on the condom, the attention gets shifted and focused on wearing the condom resulting in loss of erection. This pisses him off. He may feel utterly frustrated if he makes desperate attempts to get an erection. Know that erection cannot be willed. It does not contain voluntary muscles like those in your hand. With voluntary muscles you can lift your hand at your will.
Erection happens only in the presence of sexual mood and not as and when you wish. eg. Even if you want to get an erection, you won’t get it when in you are in serious business meeting. If you are dejected any amount of trying is counterproductive. ‘Trying’ with her or your help is a sure recipe for not getting back erection.
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What do I do?
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Keep your Cool
At the critical time just leave attempting the insertion aspect. Stay confident. Begin talking, kissing or cuddling as you did when you began. You are bound to get an erection even if you do not want it. Important is to know that erection can come and go and therefore it is important to be confident.
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Allowing sexual fantasies.
Another method is to allow yourself sexual fantasies that you know have excited you before when masturbating. Do not tell your fantasy to the lady. It is just imagination that gets you aroused due to which you get erection.
How to prevent losing of erection midway as while wearing a condom?
You would neither want feeling imbecile or impotent. So do this.
Read the details of ‘How to wear a condom’ that comes with the condom box.
Practice using condom beforehand.
Before marriage or whenever you can, buy condom and practice wearing it during erection when you are alone, like when you are masturbating.
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Also
You may lose the sexual mood because of the interruption caused by wearing condom.
Any other interruption like a door bell or mobile phone ringing is as bad.
Here is a picture joke about wearing condoms.
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Pictures showing how to wear a condom?
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