sex-with-close-relative-incest

Question:

hello im richard (For anonymity actual name changed) 35 (actual not disclosed) year old male from west virginia (actual not disclosed) im unemployed and am living with my parents for last year my thing is i have always viewed porn and stuff im a virgin but for last 10 to 11 months i have secretly lust for my mom from looking up fantasy incest porn to smelling her panties to peeping on her while i masterbate sometimes up to 3 or more times a night i just cant stop thinking of her i watch her all time from bending over cleaning house to her doing yard work i have went as far to make hole in my wall so can watch her in bathroom is this normal or what is wrong im very confused thanks richard

Reply

Hi Richard,
is this normal or what is wrong
Is sexual attraction towards mother normal?
What you describe is not normal. It is not going to satiate your sexual appetite. You will end up in a dung of shameful problem.

Why is it not normal?
The lust leading to sexual intimacy with close relative is socially, morally, legally prohibited.
How do I overcome this (thoughts of incest)?
TREATMENT
Brief outline
You require sexual outlet. Sexual urge is through masturbation and watching pornography that is limited to watching pornography, marriage, full time work that.
i have went as far to make hole in my wall so can watch her in bathroom
This is VOYERURISM.

lust for my mom
What you describe is desire for sexual activity with close relative (not your spouse) This is INCEST.

always viewed porn
PORNOGRAPHY:
Is pornography
A
beneficial in preventing actual sex that is forbidden by giving safer outlet, namely, watching the fantasy in porn movies or does (SUBLIMATES)
B
pornography stimulate, incite forbidden sexual behavior? (STIMULATES)
In my opinion, both effects exist. however the first, namely, pornography giving a safe outlet (SUBLIMATION) to sexual passions that are forbidden

I presume you have moved in to live with with your parents for short time. You have no job. If you take the healthmeter© test we can know if you are suffering from clinical depression. The method of helping you would be different.
Please do the healthmeter© test.
When incest or child sexual abuse occurs, the entire family needs treatment.

Sexual abuse occurs when the perpetrator has a relationship to the victim and exploits the power of that relationship with inappropriate sexual behavior.