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image sex positions The woman lies on her back, with the man is on top. The fact that her pelvis is not tilted to face downwards helps the sperm move closer to the cervix, helping in conception and the man has a great leeway to achieve better penetration.


From Users Manual of sex in English

This article has been revised and re-written several times since its
very first creation in 2008, to keep the information current.
The most recent revision was done by Dr. Ashok Koparday डॅाक्टर अशोक कोपर्डे
Date last updated: September 16, 2015

Address: Samadhan India

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For a guy knowledge of female genital geography is beneficial.
The diagrams, or blue films are representative and the actual search for
location of insertion of penis can be formidable. It is like seeing a map
or a documentary and actually being on the battlefield. Just as in
battlefield example so too in actual first time sexual meet anxiety is
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Tension hai yaar First know that it is not
essential that you do penis in vagina [peno-vaginal] insertion in the
first sexual intercourse. Will that not be embarrassing? No. It proves
that you are virgin/inexperienced person. This does not mean you shun sex
play or feel defeated.

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intercourse requires

[1] privacy, [2] time and [3] protection against
important undesirable consequences.

Note about PROTECTION is given at the end.

Suhagrat or First Wedding Night is the wrong time to attempt first
sexual intercourse.

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HOW TO BEGIN first sexual intercourse?


the requirements in mind begin with making love or Foreplay. Foreplay
includes talking(naughty), listening, touching, kissing, caressing,
embracing all that gives sexual pleasure. Use your finger, hand, tongue,
mouth as you both feel enjoyable. Nothing is forbidden. Just hold on to
the ‘ANAND’ [JOY] as the mantra. This helps learn actual female sexual
geography, removes inhibitions and increases sexual pleasure many folds.

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I presume girlfriend is virgin. Please
OBSERVE whether she is afraid or in pain at the moment of attempting
insertion. Noticing this is important. Most girls during first sex are
afraid as they have wrong notion that sex is painful and (or) there is
bleeding during first sex. IMPORTANT In the situation mentioned above,
which is applicable to over 50% of couples who are doing sexual
intercourse for first (or initial few times) the result is inability to
insert penis in vagina. This is called ‘unconsummated sex’. 100% of boys
believe they are the cause of it. Boys believe inability to insert is
because of their poor erection or quicker ejaculation. Though there is no
sexual inadequacy in boys doing sexual intercourse for the first time
they believe they have failed and are sexually inadequate. Fear



First use the finger
to locate the vaginal opening. The girl knows this opening because this
is the place from where menses flow during her period. On the touch of
finger or attempting to insert finger if she experiences pain DO NOT EVEN
ATTEMPT TO insert penis.
Reason one: Both come to think there is
something wrong with them. It becomes a setback that causes heightened
fear during next attempt at sexual intercourse. The inability to do
insertion of penis in vagina during first sexual intercourse is like a
certificate that says both are inexperienced -that is – virgins. When a
finger can go inside smoothly without pain, you may attempt insertion of
penis. In the missionary position where he is on top of her body, he
cannot see where the penis is going. When you feel there is partial
insertion it means there is no insertion. The penis just goes between thighs or thick folds of labia majora (external part of vulva/female genital).
Reason two: If a finger cannot go in the vagina how will the penis, which is bigger diameter than finger go in?
Reason three: Pain caused by forceful insertion of penis may make her think life long that sex = pain.


Do not feel bad if insertion does not happen for it is not uncommon.

Key to having Most Exciting Sex?




[A] Protection to avoid unwanted pregnancy,

[B] Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) and

[C] Social-moral embarrassment, more important emotional hurt when one of the two decide to separate. Feeling of being used for example. First impression often leaves women embittered about men kind if man wants casual sex and girl is in committed relationship with him.

Men give love for the sake of Sex. Women give Sex for the sake of Love.

गलत धारणा को दिमाग से निकल फेको

मेडिकल जानकारी से
Keep Cursor Here
गलत फैमि दूर भगाना
WRONG Beliefs

For diagrams, detailed information on ‘suhagraat’ ‘First Sex’, ‘Unconsummated sex’, ‘Difficulty in inserting penis during first sex’ and other questions you can see well written articles illustrated with animated diagrams on many of the Doctor’s websites. Additional facility to ASK DOCTOR in detail is available for FREE.

Dr. (Mr.) Ashok Koparday

M.B.B.S., F.C.S.E.P. (International)
Accreditation: M.M.C. of India
Ex. Teaching Faculty

Seth G. S. Medical College

King Edward Memorial
K. E. M. Hospital
Grant Medical College
Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals,
University of Mumbai


Psycho-Sexual Medicine
Marriage counselor

Member: Indian Medical Association
Fellow: Council of Sex Education & Parenthood (International)

Published by Ashok Koparday
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Samadhan India
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License: CC-BY-NC-SA-4.0 Attribution as given here:
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Date last updated: September 16, 2015
Date published:
Date created: 2008

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December 27, 2013 at 10:17 pm

sir meri umar 24 hai maine hastmaithun bahut kiya
ek baar mauka mila lekin mera poora tight nahi hua aur daalne se pehle hi nkal gaya main kya karoon


October 23, 2013 at 10:40 pm

Hello docter,
Docter ,jab mein fresh hone jata hu toh toilet ke sath sprum aa raha hai 2-3 month se .kya medison lu samajh nai aa raha hai.
Please advise me what I do..


April 21, 2013 at 6:49 pm

hai sir mera naam sameer age 25,meri shadi hai may6th ko aur mai suhagrat mein ziyada enjoy karna chata hoon plz is ke liye mai kya karna hoga… plz answer me by mail thank u sir

    By Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Sex Therapist, Accredited Sexual Health Center – World Class – Premier – Best – Samadhan India

    May 9, 2013 at 7:55 am


    यार कोई दवा नहीं लेना। खुद की मस्ती से, यारी दोस्ती से, प्यार मोहब्बत से और बेशर्मी से आनंद लेना और देना।
    यदि आपके बीवी को दर्द या भय लगता हो तो याद रखना जबरदस्ती नहीं करना ना ही नाराज होना। जबरदस्ती करोगे तो हो सकता है जीवन भर उसे सेक्स से नफरत होगी और आप के प्रति इज्जत कम होगी।

    वायग्रा जैसी गोली तो लेना ही नही। अभी हमारे पास ऐसे युवा आ रहे है जो कहते है, “डॉक्टर, हमें हमारी खुद की पावर दिला दीजिये।”

    दवा दारू से दूर रहना। मस्ती मजाक खूब करना।

    डॉक्टर अशोक कोपर्ड़े

    By Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Sex Therapist, Accredited Sexual Health Center – World Class – Premier – Best – Samadhan India

    July 6, 2013 at 1:24 am


    यार कोई दवा नहीं लेना। खुद की मस्ती से, यारी दोस्ती से, प्यार मोहब्बत से और बेशर्मी से आनंद लेना और देना।
    यदि आपके बीवी को दर्द या भय लगता हो तो याद रखना जबरदस्ती नहीं करना ना ही नाराज होना। जबरदस्ती करोगे तो हो सकता है जीवन भर उसे सेक्स से नफरत होगी और आप के प्रति इज्जत कम होगी।

    वायग्रा जैसी गोली तो लेना ही नही। अभी हमारे पास ऐसे युवा आ रहे है जो कहते है, “डॉक्टर, हमें हमारी खुद की पावर दिला दीजिये।”

    दवा दारू से दूर रहना। मस्ती मजाक खूब करना।

    डॉक्टर अशोक कोपर्ड़े

By Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Accredited Sex Therapist, Medical Director: Sex Therapy, Education, Research Center, Samadhan, Mumbai, India

November 6, 2012 at 10:22 am

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