ARE YOU A WORKAHOLIC?

You wrote:

Case File 1

Hi,
I had a healthy sex life till sometime back.Recently my sex drive has decreased majorly.I get a hard on but when i proceed to have sex it goes down in a few seconds.I went to a doctor that prescribed Viagra(penegra) to me.It helped a bit.But I dont wanna be depndent on a drug to have sex.My fiance is greatly dissapointed at me.Also I come really fast.Sum and substance I have never been able to satisfy her.Though a year back we were doin it up to 4 times a day.I am not bored of her.and very sexualy attracted to her but i fail to perform.Please help!!

Case File 2

Dear Sir

My name is xxx raju xxx,
Aged 32
Married have 1 baby.

I have a problem of premature Ejaculation. Ejaculation occures after 1 or 2 strokes or some time its even before insertion.

I have tried many treatments. I am not statisfied with the result.

Please help me getting goog treatment.

Regards…

Reply:
High Excitement
–>
Early ejaculation
—>
Nervousness, shame, disappointment of male.
incomplete, sex should be for longer time says female
—>
He tends to avoid/postpone sexual intercourse in order not to face shameful situation “I can’t do it.” “I can’t satisfy her.”
—>
Long gap between love making.
Meaning, frequency of sex is less.
It was 5 times a week, now it is 1 or 2 times a month.
—->
His excitement goes on rising. He also thinks that he has to fulfill her sexual need and cannot avoid sex.
—>
High excitement
—->

Early ejaculation
—>
vicious cycle
Thus, he is more disappointed, scared.
This causes UNTOLD suffering. Either he

• is further tricked by quack or

• bears the sorrow.

• He compensates by pampering female partner in all other areas.

• He has aches and pains. Example, he may complain of backache that causes difficulty in doing sex.
• This dampens his desire.
• Consequently his erection is not as it used to be.
• “The size of my penis is small.”
• He becomes workaholic.

Case File 3

am 28 yrs old young man, my weight is 95, i am married 2yrs back, duirng first year my weight was 75, even i had a happy sex no problem, but now a days i find some problems of early ejacuation during sex, after intercorse i get ejected with in 2 min, also i am finding my penis size is also geting smaller, please help me with this problem.

PREMATURE EJACULATION

People with ‘Early Discharge’, ‘Premature Ejaculation’ or ‘Early Orgasmic Response’, if given proper treatment get satisfactory results.

Two aspects weigh on the mind of the guy:

I.

What if I am not able to satisfy her?
(Fear that she may seek extramarital relation.)

II.

How can I prolong so that ejaculation is delayed?

IMPORTANT TIPS
Of FOREMOST importance is to know what is normal time.
Do you have realistic expectation?
If his expectation is to last for 30 minutes, he will get frustrated and would be visiting ‘n’ number of doctors.

To know the proper management of Premature Ejaculation please see this.

A. Non Medicinal Methods
B. Methods that use Medicine
C. FemaleSatisfaction

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

ALSO SEE http://doctortells.blogspot.com . . . .sex matters.

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Samadhan India
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