CONTACT Address, email, phone number is below.

NAME

Dr. Ashok Koparday ASK DOCTOR

EDUCATIONAL QUALIFICATION

Dr. Ashok Koparday completed his medical studies from Seth G.S. Medical College affiliated to K.E.M. Hospital, a premier teaching institute and was a taught in his alma mater.

He was given the ‘Best Teacher Award’ on the Teachers Day in 1991 at the Grant Medical College affiliated to Sir J.J. Group of Hospitals, University of Mumbai (former Bombay), INDIA

EXPERIENCE

Dr. Ashok Koparday is registered medical doctor. He is exclusively practicing as Consultant in Sexual Medicine for over 15 years.

INTEREST

He has special interest in Relationships Skills Development, Family Life Management and Study of Benefits of Sex [Sexual Well-being - not merely Sexual Dysfunctions]

UNIQUE CONTRIBUTION [USP]

http://mydoctortells.com is the only FREE HELPLINE that provides PERSONALIZED EXPERT MEDICAL OPINION addressing individual queries related to Sex Problems. Dr. Ashok Koparday has championed tele-medicine.

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EXPERTISE

Sexual Health, Relationship Healing are subjects in which he is a pro par excellence. Dr. Ashok Koparday has devised innovative therapeutic techniques, which the Western Sex Therapists too would benefit from.

EXPERT AUTHOR
EZINE

India is a rich mine of wisdom.

Dr. Ashok Koparday uses the best of the east and the west and passes on the benefit to countless people who seek his expert medical opinion.

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WHY

In the global town today we are going to increasingly come across, meet, and interact with people having different social and cultural backgrounds.

FREE

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education service.
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Dr. Ashok Koparday_{MBBS, FC SEPI}

Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

Member: Indian Medical Association

Registered Maharashtra Medical Council

Member: Family Planning Association of India

Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]
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ADDRESS:
A1, Namdeep, Barrister Nath Pai Road (90 Feet Road), Opposite Cafe Coffee Day, Near Vikrant Building, Near Garodia Palace, Ghatkopar (East), Mumbai -PIN 400077 Maharashtra, INDIA
Mobile Phone: +91 9867788877

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PHONE NO. For Appointment: +91 9870807409

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FAMILY SITE

The individual is dissatisfied. The partner either goes into shell or counter argues. The story goes on.

These people are adept at wearing a mask of happy couple at social events.

From where does the germ of dissatisfaction enter?
Love or rather romance implies a cloud of dream of how s/he would be. Romance is a tender emotion that allures as early as 9 years of age. It may not be expressed, but the mind covets a girl or boy in the classroom or neighborhood.
Romance flares as one grows and goes through adolescence. This is the time streak of rebellion against parents is likely to be the highest. Complaints about the parents and dissatisfaction with the attention/love they get appears inhuman to and adolescent. The baby is caressed and cuddled and gets attention from elder. If the attention is lacking as when mother is talking on the telephone the baby is sure to cry or meddle to draw attention to itself. Such a mechanism of drawing loving attention rapidly disappears when parents measure the child by the marks/grades s/he gets in studies. Parents goad the child, deliberately force the child to do unpleasant things (studies) and is scolded if disobeys or brings poor results in school in academics or in sports. coax and and sweet things

CHIDE TEST

MEASURE YOUR ANGER QUOTIENT - AQ

Do you frequently turn angry? You know that is bad for health of the person on whom you blast.

CHIDE TEST tells how a person reacts to a situation. Has the person become irritable lately?

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Start an argument with the person whose CHIDE TEST is to be done. Slowly, hurl insulting slangs. Now step up to abusive language.
GRADE 1 uses the following:

Stupid, moron, useless, worth less, you do not know what you are doing,
rascal, good for nothing, sick silly sucking sud

Obscene words have to be used with caution. I repeat, make sure the person does not have anything handy to throw on your face.
PRECAUTION
In this scientific exercise it is important to use the native language of the person. If you have good diction and hurl torrent of abuses, and if the person knows nothing but his native language, he may end up saying, “Thank you” with a broad smile. This indeed is waste of your fxxxking time.

“I can even kill to get a NOBEL PRIZE for PEACE” - anon

THE PSEUDO SCIENTIFIC DETAILS BEGIN BELOW.
You may skip it and go directly here if you are in a hurry.
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TESTS
Comparison of tests available to Physician vis a vis tests available to Psychiatrist for Diagnosis.
Are there blood tests or X ray tests for Diagnosis of Psychiatric Illness?
In clinical medicine to diagnose pneumonia besides case history and clinical findings, radiological study of chest, [Xray Antero Posterior (AP) and Lateral (L) view] is done to confirm the diagnosis. Such test as X ray or Blood tests are not available as yet (till the time of writing) to the treating Psychiatrist/Psychologist/Psycho Therapist/Counselor for quick inexpensive confirmatory diagnosis.
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PET
PET Postiron Emission Tomography shows changes in the limbic system, which is useful for research. It is expensive, requires expertise and cannot be used in routine medical practice for diagnosis. PET is useless for treatment. (PET cannot be used as a tool to treat patients.)
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USES OF CHIDE TEST

One test that is easy, measurable and confirmatory is the CHIDE TEST.
CHIDE TEST
CHIDE TEST is an objective
1. DIAGNOSTIC test. CHIDE TEST gives specific measurable reading of person’s ANGER QUOTIENT, AQ.

2. PROGNOSIS
CHIDE TEST measures AQ, hence, it is useful in prognosis or measurement of improvement with treatment.
3. TREATMENT
CHIDE TEST is not only diagnostic, but is useful in THERAPY. Behavior Therapy uses CHIDE TEST. Cognitive distortions can be elucidated in laboratory setting. Person is taught how to differentiate between REACTION and RESPONSE in any given situation.
REACTION outburst hurts relationships whereas REACTION suppression leads to diseases.
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USES OF CHIDE TEST FOR TREATMENT

CHIDE TEST teaches the technique to keep one’s poise and equilibrium. It is therapeutically useful for people who complain of being tortured by angry out burst of BOSS (either at home or in office). CHIDE TEST measures how arrogant a person is. People are divided into GRADES I, II, III, which are further subdivided into A and B.
III rd GRADE is obviously worst case.
Example:
WHO HAS THE WORST AQ = CHIDE TEST III rd GRADE B ?
If a person is found to be afflicted by tremendous rage for duration of 12 months or more than 12 months and if that person is found to be causing major distress to people around than the person will be IIIrd GRADE B.
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PROCEDURE OF CHIDE TEST

HOW IS CHIDE TEST DONE?
The CHIDE TEST is a scientific session between two people when blame and unpleasant words, which are graded depending on their abuse potential, are spoken to a person. The person’s reaction is measured.

If the heart seems to falter when the guy is running as most people’s would because we do not go running to the office and definitely do not come back home running. Sports does give some exercise, but it is limited to (medically speaking iris and the ocular muscles) eyeball muscles because you just watch sports on the Television (Idiot Box).

In such a normal person whose heart falters when forced to run, the doctor with grave face will tell you how bad you are at your heart. This solemn somber report, a procedure necessary to scare the wit out of the person. This is just to ensure that a border line or even normal person turns in to a cardiac patient. Doctor’s heart beats with joy. Here he has got a heart that is going to make him richer.]

To confirm the diagnosis of pneumonia X ray is useful. Does the Psychiatrist have X ray or Blood Tests to arrive at or to confirm diagnosis?

We are going to see STRESS TEST for the mind.

MENTAL STRESS TEST

It is simpler. Do you watch Raghu interviewing ROADIES? If you do, you do not need long explanation.
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STRESS TEST of the mind

is called

CHIDE TEST.

Material:
The PERSON you pick up for CHIDE TEST, you and an assistant.
Essential prerequisites:
The one who takes the CHIDE TEST must have masochistic ruthless brain, fluency in rich vocabulary of abuses, repertoire in insults.
Tip: You get this with practice. Just remember to be cruel.

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METHODOLOGY (using the suffix ‘LOGY’ is important. It makes the whole damn thing look respectful and scientific.)
It is recommended that the EXAMINER has a qualified ASSISTANT for the CHIDE TEST. For qualifications of the ASSISTANT go to the bottom of this page.

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PREPARATION
This is important.

• Make sure the subject who is to take the CHIDE TEST does not carry any explosives, ammunitions.
• Whisk away all objects from his pocket before you commence the test. Eg. Cell phones are not allowed inside laboratory. We don’t want a III rd grade ragamuffin picking out some object from his pocket and throwing on the face of the esteemed examiner. The scar looks ugly.
  These precautions are necessary because CHIDE TEST is not done under anesthesia. Using anesthesia is Surgeon’s job.
• The person must be sober, preferably empty stomach, meaning starving.
  Who is unfit for CHIDE TEST.
  Make sure that the subject is not drunk or under the influence of drugs. Such a person is a reckless weapon himself. This person is unfit and disqualified to undergo the CHIDE TEST in the laboratory premises. Give him another appointment and proceed to the next subject who is starving to undergo the CHIDE TEST.
• Do not keep glass bottles at hands reach of the subject. The laboratory specification mentions that the minimum distance between the examiner and the subject be 7 feet. A teak table that is at least 7 feet broad and 9 feet wide and high enough to prevent someone jumping over it to catch the examiner’s throat.

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QUALIFICATIONS OF ASSISTANT
Who cannot be an Assistant for the CHIDE TEST
Lady receptionist or secretary is disqualified as assistant due to the Woman’s Right to Safety and Health. Recruit an assistant who has the following physical features.
He should be well built muscular guy with
broad, long, flowing mustache that is curled at the corners.
PREFERENCE: It is preferable to hire a guy whose CV shows past experience in Armed Forces, or Police Department or has been jailed for brutal assault.
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Reference:
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Meaning of ‘chide’:
chide (chd)
v. chid·ed or chid (chd), chid·ed or chid or chid·den (chdn), chid·ing, chides
v.tr.
To scold mildly so as to correct or improve; reprimand: chided the boy for his sloppiness.
v.intr.
To express disapproval.
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/chide

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Synonyms:
verb
To criticize for a fault or an offense: admonish, call down, castigate, chastise, dress down, rap, rebuke, reprimand, reproach, reprove, scold, tax, upbraid.
Informal bawl out, lambaste.
Slang chew out.
Idioms: bring call, take to task, call on the carpet, haulrakeover the coals, let someone have it.
See attack/defend, praise/blame.
http://www.answers.com/topic/chide

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Translations
Translations for: Chide
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Dansk (Danish)
v. tr. – skænde på, irettesætte
v. intr. – skænde

Nederlands (Dutch)
berispen

Français (French)
v. tr. – réprimander
v. intr. – réprimander

Deutsch (German)
v. – schelten

Ελληνική (Greek)
v. – κατσαδιάζω, μαλώνω

Italiano (Italian)
rimproverare, riprendere, biasimare, sgridare, brontolare

Português (Portuguese)
v. – repreender

Русский (Russian)
попрекать, отчитывать

Español (Spanish)
v. tr. – reprender, amonestar, regañar
v. intr. – hacer una amonestación o un regaño

Svenska (Swedish)
v. – banna, bannas, klaga

中文（简体） (Chinese (Simplified))
责备, 责骂, 责怪

中文（繁體） (Chinese (Traditional))
v. tr. – 責備, 責罵, 責怪
v. intr. – 責備, 責罵, 責怪

한국어 (Korean)
v. tr. – 꾸짖다, 투덜대다
v. intr. – 꾸짖다, 투덜대다

日本語 (Japanese)
v. – しかる, 非難する, 小言を言う

العربيه (Arabic)
‏(فعل) وبخ, أنب‏

עברית (Hebrew)
v. tr. – ‮גער ב-, נזף ב-‬
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