RESPONSE TYPE 1

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construction Says:
August 4th, 2009 at 7:02 pm

I wish that I was a lawyer to represent these women. he deseerved glue and more.. there are consequenes when you are unfaithful!!!
I takr my hat off to them a job well done!!

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hotbod in dallas Says:
August 4th, 2009 at 10:28 pm

Guess the guy must have been something if he could hold 4 women on a string. But then again,
he should have kept his big wiggle worm in his pants and at home with his wife. If he didnt want to be married, then get a DIVORCE.

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RESPONSE TYPE 2

shatteredmen Says:
August 7th, 2009 at 2:17 am

For those who think this is funny….what would you say if four men super glued a woman’s genitals? Do you think those four men would be out on a $200 cash bond? (don’t forget, there were other charges such as auto theft too)

One of these women was also married but no one is talking about her cheating on her husband and no one is considering that all but one of these women knew this man was not married to THEM so they are equally as guilty as he is.

Other news sources have stated that this man has now been arrested because of charges most likely placed by one of these women. I guess no one is asking why the charges now? I also notice that no one is calling this domestic violence on the part of his wife. No wonder our society thinks that only men are violent. In reality, when only one person is violent in a a domestic setting, 72% of the time it is the woman.

http://pn.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/42/15/31-a

Clinical & Research News
Men Shouldn’t Be Overlooked as Victims of Partner Violence
Joan Arehart-Treichel

In addressing intimate partner violence, the focus is usually on women who are physically battered by husbands or boyfriends. However, women sometimes hurt their partners as well.

Women are doing virtually everything these days that men are—working as doctors, lawyers, and rocket scientists; flying helicopters in combat; riding horses in the Kentucky Derby. And physically assaulting their spouses or partners.

In fact, when it comes to nonreciprocal violence between intimate partners, women are more often the perpetrators.

These findings on intimate partner violence come from a study conducted by scientists at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). The lead investigator was Daniel Whitaker, Ph.D., a behavioral scientist and team leader at the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control (which is part of the CDC). Results were published in the May Journal of Public Health.

In 2001, the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health attempted to amass data about the health of a nationally representative sample of 14,322 individuals between the ages of 18 and 28. The study also asked subjects to answer questions about romantic or sexual relationships in which they had engaged during the previous five years and whether those relationships had involved violence.

Of those subjects, 11,370 reported having had heterosexual relationships and also provided answers to the violence-related questions. So Whitaker and his colleagues decided to use the responses from these 11,370 subjects for a study into how much violence is experienced in intimate heterosexual partner relationships, who the instigators are, and whether physical harm accrues from the violence.

The 11,370 subjects, Whitaker and his colleagues found, reported on 18,761 relationships, of which 76 percent had been nonviolent and 24 percent violent.

That almost a quarter of the subjects had engaged in violent relationships may seem high to some people, but “the rates we found are similar to those of other studies of late adolescents and young adults, a time period when interpersonal-violence rates are at their highest,” Whitaker told Psychiatric News.

Also, he added, “these rates demonstrate the magnitude of interpersonal violence as a health and social problem.”

Furthermore, Whitaker discovered, of the 24 percent of relationships that had been violent, half had been reciprocal and half had not. Although more men than women (53 percent versus 49 percent) had experienced nonreciprocal violent relationships, more women than men (52 percent versus 47 percent) had taken part in ones involving reciprocal violence.

Regarding perpetration of violence, more women than men (25 percent versus 11 percent) were responsible. In fact, 71 percent of the instigators in nonreciprocal partner violence were women. This finding surprised Whitaker and his colleagues, they admitted in their study report.

As for physical injury due to intimate partner violence, it was more likely to occur when the violence was reciprocal than nonreciprocal. And while injury was more likely when violence was perpetrated by men, in relationships with reciprocal violence it was the men who were injured more often (25 percent of the time) than were women (20 percent of the time). “This is important as violence perpetrated by women is often seen as not serious,” Whitaker and his group stressed.

Of the study’s numerous findings, Whitaker said, “I think the most important is that a great deal of interpersonal violence is reciprocally perpetrated and that when it is reciprocally perpetrated, it is much more likely to result in injury than when perpetrated by only one partner.”

The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, upon which this investigation was based, was funded by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development with co-funding from 17 other federal agencies.

An abstract of “Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury Between Relationships With Reciprocal and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence” is posted at .

Psychiatr News August 3, 2007
Volume 42, Number 15, page 31
© 2007 American Psychiatric Association
http://www.ajph.org/cgi/content/abstract/97/5/941

RESEARCH AND PRACTICE
Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury Between Relationships With Reciprocal and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence

Daniel J. Whitaker, PhD, Tadesse Haileyesus, MS, Monica Swahn, PhD and Linda S. Saltzman, PhD

AJPH First Look, published online ahead of print Mar 29, 2007

AJPH.2005.079020v1
97/5/941

May 2007, Vol 97, No. 5 | American Journal of Public Health 941-947
© 2007 American Public Health Association
DOI: 10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020

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QUESTION:

I am a working women with three children. For the past 11 years my husband has been harrassing me mentally , physically. Unable to bear his torture at last I lodged a complaint in the police. Now he is getting bail and threatening to kill me and my kids. Where should I go. Please help me

REPLY
Hi,
1. External support
Please check out here http://mydoctortells.com/women-of-power-stree-mukti-sanghatana/
the article on organization that works for women welfare.

2. Internal Reconstruction
Know that you have formed a pattern in you that attracts physical, verbal abuse. Take help of materials as in Rhonda Byrne’s “THE SECRET” (DVD and book is available) http://www.thesecret.tv/

as well as

“YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE” -by Louis Hay http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYCamVx4fSQ.

You can heal your life gives penetrating insights into Louise’s fascinating personal story and the method of self affirmation that took her out of her personal misery.

3.
A method that I found works with people is to use SELF AFFIRMATIONS.
Say to yourself often “I enjoy healthy, loving relationship with my husband.”
“I respect myself.”
“I love myself.”

If self help method gives inadequate result and the fear or difficulty persists do visit a competent Counselor or Psychologist or Psychiatrist without fail. There expertize is unfortunately under utilized due to taboo.

Please let me know if you have any additional questions.

Dr. Ashok Koparday
Consultant
Family Life Management
Samadhan India: Center for Therapy, Education and Research in Sex, Marriage and Relationships.

READERS PLEASE GIVE SUGGESTIONS

Is legal separation – divorce – a solution?
Should she get Police Protection?
Should she involve relatives/office friends?

You go the Mrs. Bedi – Ex Commission of Police – Delhi. She is running this Aap Ki Kacheri program and she will be able to provide protection and some cash as help to you.
Syed Ehtram Ali
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To Transform Yourself
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Nasty habits: nun’s sex and torture tell all

(Kerala, India)
Friday Feb 20, 2009
11:11AM
By Andrew Buncombe

A former nun’s tell-all story which details illicit relationships, sexual harassment and bullying in the convent where she spent three decades is causing ructions in the Catholic Church in the south Indian state of Kerala.

“People say that everything is OK, but I was in the convent and I want them to know what goes on. I have concerns for others.”

Sister Jesme, who quit last year as the principal of a Catholic college in Thrissur, alleges senior nuns tried to have her committed to a mental institution after she spoke out against them.

In her book, she says that while travelling through Bangalore, she was once directed to stay with a purportedly pious priest who took her to a garden “and showed me several pairs cuddling behind trees. He also gave me a sermon on the necessity of physical love and described the illicit affairs that certain bishops and priests had”.

The priest took her to his home, stripped off his clothes and ordered her to do the same.

She also alleges that while senior staff turned a blind eye to the actions of more experienced nuns, novices were strongly punished, even for minor transgressions. She was not allowed to go home after she learnt her father had died.

“I was able to see [the body of] my father barely 15 minutes before the funeral,” she writes. “The [response] of the superiors was that the then senior sisters were not even lucky enough to see the bodies of their parents.”

When she resigned as a college principal, she claimed convents had become “houses of torture”, saying: “The mental torture was unbearable. When I questioned the church’s stand on self-financing colleges and certain other issues, they accused me of having mental problems. They have even sent me to a psychiatrist. There are many nuns undergoing ill-treatment from the order, but they are afraid of challenging it. The church is a formidable fortress.”

The allegations are not the only controversy to rock the Catholic Church in Kerala. Last summer, a 23-year-old novice committed suicide and left a note saying she had been harassed by her Mother Superior.

Reports suggest there have been a number of similar suicides. And in November, police in Kerala arrested two priests and a nun in connection with the killing of Sister Abhaya in a notorious 1992 murder.

Last night, a spokesman for the Syro-Malabar order of the Catholic Church, Dr Paul Thelakkat, dismissed Sister Jesme’s allegations as a “book of trivialities”.

“It’s her experiences, but these are things that might creep into a society of communal living,” he said. Asked if the church would be shocked by the allegations, he replied: “Absolutely not. The church knows about these things.”

- THE INDEPENDENT
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Nasty habits: nun’s sex and torture tell all (Kerala, India)

THE INDEPENDENT

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http://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=10557785

Friday Feb 20, 2009

11:11AM

By Andrew Buncombe

Specially Contributed by

Ram, New Zealand