whether-to-tell-parents-about-boy-or-girlfriend

TEENAGERS DILEMMA

One of the important questions teenager has is whether to tell about his girl friend (or about her boy friend) to parents.
We will discuss separately about, “How to tell parents?”
Here we will first see what is going on when they wonder whether to tell parents.
Whether to tell parents or not to tell?

1. If the parents are very strict or orthodox and will most probably forbid continuing the friendship teenagers choose not to reveal.
2. Another reason is it is a matter of his friend (or her friend’s) personal privacy that the teen may not like to violate. It’s my/our private matter.
3. More common than the above reasons is that he and she become friends and make it out. They look for time and place to make love.

They know that marriage in between the two is not possible (caste, religion, parents won’t agree, either he or she or both are married to someone else) yet having tasted the joy of stealthy meeting, enjoyed the obsessive ecstasy of romance and the addictive high of uninhibited, unabashed sexual activity they are enslaved to thrill of love making of a kind experienced never before (never before if it is his or her first sex, which is exception and not the rule).