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Premarital Counseling Sex Marriage Anxiety

We discuss here role of premarital counseling as treatment of marriage anxiety due to sex problems.

Why Am I Scared to Get Married?
Whether you are a boy or a girl you could have wedding anxiety or marriage anxiety.
Is it normal to be nervous about getting married?
To some extent, Yes.
However, if the anxiety is so much that you postpone marriage help is to be sought.
The anxiety may be accompanied with depression before wedding.
Pre marital counseling or pre marriage counseling is what you require.

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In a girl besides sexual issues there can be many reasons precipitating marriage anxiety.
These can be and need to be addressed by marriage counselor before marriage.
In a boy severe anxiety and distress is seen

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CAUSES OF SEX MARRIAGE WEDDING ANXIETY

Some common causes of anxiety in boy are given below.

He firmly believes he is sexually inadequate.
Either his penis size is too small, he comes too quick or he does not get good enough hard on.
Sexual Performance Anxiety is highly prevalent in India.
Unrealistic expectations fed by XXX porn movies.
Added to this is exploitation by quacks by creating fear psychosis about loss of semen leading to loss of vitality and dire consequences.
Parents, teachers and society keep mum.
Teachers mind the explicit content on this website. They fail to understand that children today are exposed to totally explicit pornographic powerful audio visual content from which the growing child imbibes norms of sexual practices.
Myths about excessive nightfall, excessive masturbation self labeled as addiction and resulting excessive loss of semen abound in catastrophic proportion in many parts of India and neighboring countries.
These WRONG BELIEFS about excessive nightfall, excessive masturbation and excessive loss of semen causing deleterious effects on the person.
To this is added persistently failed attempts at curbing masturbation and treatment to stop nightfall.
Wrong beliefs harbor a virulent germ called “self doubt”.
The vitality is sapped by incessant worry, guilt and failed treatment making life dreadful.
Performance anxiety takes a heavy toll on the young mind.
Premarital counseling sex marriage anxiety

CURE TREATMENT OF PERFORMANCE ANXIETY

When he or she postpones marriage due to fear related to sex the best treatment is pre marriage counseling.

Premarital counseling sex marriage anxiety

Why does a man keep postponing his marriage?

What is premarital anxiety?

What is performance anxiety?

Premarital counseling sex marriage anxiety

If you are postponing marriage or your friend or relative is, then you should be reading this.
Those of you who BEFORE MARRIAGE ARE AFRAID AND NOT SURE THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DO SEX PROPERLY AND SATISFY YOUR WIFE will also immensely benefit by reading this.
Newly wed boy who has sex problems will discover the real reason of his problem and benefit. Here’s BEST TREATMENT.

Why does a boy keeps on giving excuses to postpone marriage?
What is the real reason to postpone marriage?

The answer is ‘Premarital anxiety’.
What is premarital anxiety? What causes premarital anxiety? What is the treatment for premarital anxiety?

A large part of Premarital Anxiety is due to –>
Performance Anxiety, which is due to –>
Fear of failure.

HOW WILL YOU KNOW HE HAS PERFORMANCE ANXIETY?

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He avoids, or rather keeps postponing his marriage with one pretext or the other. His excuses are unreasonable. His age is above 29. Due to force from parents, because he has no escape he consents to marry. Or else parents give up and stop asking him to marry, though they fervently wish he be married. He goes in his forties. If he meets a good Sex Therapist, Marriage Counselor, he is rescued. He becomes well and does marry. All are happy.

His romance, the love talk after engagement, before marriage with the fiancée is almost nil.

What if I am not able to do sex?
I am afraid I will not be able to satisfy her.
This fear is NOT UNCOMMON in men.

Premarital counseling sex marriage anxiety

POSTPONE MARRIAGE

Some guys postpone marriage until they run out of excuses. Then they are gripped by fear, a foreboding of disaster on first night that can be extremely traumatic more so because he cannot share his problem with any one. Helpless, miserable person wears mask of ‘It’s all fine,” when he is frozen with fear. Prospect of FIRST SEX, or SUHAGRAT is worst than death. This is the way ‘To Be Married’ guys describe their problem.

PREVIOUS BAD SEXUAL EXPERIENCE

Previous sexual experience (premarital sex) where the erection was not satisfactory causes turmoil.

HER NEGATIVE COMMENTS DURING PREMARITAL SEX

If the female partner commented that you did it quickly or something like that which he perceives as sign of dissatisfaction he is doomed. This strengthens the fear of failure. The cognitive distortion operational is his over generalization from one or two sexual experiences. He does not take into account the fact that he is unaccustomed to doing frequent regular sex. Fortune teller error (= as though knowing that worst is going to happen), jumping to conclusion is another mistake that leads to PERFORMANCE ANXIETY.

The To Be Married guy is shaken up. It’s hell.
Premarital counseling sex marriage anxiety

QUACKS DESTROY HIS CONFIDENCE ALTOGETHER

Such a person, it could be your friend, or son, invariably visits a doctor. Quacks do the ultimate damage. Quacks suck money, destroy person’s trust in medical profession and leave him dejected as he feels his condition is incurable. (because common person does not know the difference between quack and qualified doctor), fail in giving relief. The quacks put up advertisements every where, no action is taken against them.

GOOD OUTCOME

Intervention by Sex Therapist gives definite successful results.

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