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A GOOD HUSBAND IS BORING.
AFFAIR WITH A LOVER IS TANTALIZING

Being a good husband is being a boring husband. You have no vices, you earn well, you have good reputation, you care for your wife, and you love your wife. Sorry, the relationship won’t work. You are a good provider, a good husband for namesake, but she is not in love with you.
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thefreedictionary.com/teasing
Teasing Thesaurus
adjective – arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it; “her lazy teasing smile”
seductive – tending to entice into a desired action or state
playful – full of fun and high spirits;
noun -frolic, play – gay or light-hearted recreational activity for diversion or amusement; “it was all done in play”; “their frolic in the surf threatened to become ugly”
tantalization
Teasing Dictionary
noun
- One that teases.
- One given to playful mockery.
- A preliminary remark or act intended to whet the curiosity.

verb transitive
- To make fun of; mock playfully.
- To arouse hope, desire, or curiosity in without affording satisfaction.
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THE SECRET OF LOVE AFFAIR

Know the chemistry of attraction working in a woman that pulls her to a man. The good guy is difficult to live with. His virtues are suffocating.

The bad guy: A woman is attracted irresistibly to a guy who projects himself as a hero with larger than life image.

EXAMPLE

He is the one who teases her unabashedly, “Oh what a waste of powder and lipstick. Such a gaudy make up. You look perfectly like a whore.” “How dare he utter those words to me?” She is stunned. She can’t get the words and the man out of her mind. The bad is exciting. The prohibited is titillating. She calls up and asks him to take back the insult. “Now that you are at home and not at work, if you have taken off the powder and paint then I take back my words. What else have you taken off Madam?” He plays with a teaser again.

A pattern starts wherein she keeps calling him. He does not always pick up the phone. He makes himself difficult to get. Such a chase rushes the adrenaline and the testosterone in her body and she can’t stop thinking about him.
His arrogance, his light hearted mockery, his playful attitude are compulsively attracting. Irresistible is the word.
This is the secret of turn on for women, whether married or unmarried. Observe the ribald bad guys who flirt and you will recognize these qualities in them.

FLIRTING IS ADDICTIVE

Love is never more blind than in the case of extramarital affair when knowingly she plunges into deep relationship oblivious or unmindful of the fact that at the same time he is flirting with other women just as he is flirting with her and condoning his past love affairs even if they have been hurtful to her.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVER AND HUSBAND

Relationship is a state where one looks for recreation from the other person. Thus, good relations exist among friends, not among relatives, including husband.
Husband is the one who provides money, stability, name, fame, social status. Lover is the one with whom she flirts.