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A young man says he has problem of

Wrong Diagnosis Of Male Sex Problems

• Premature Ejaculation,
• Penis is not as stiff as it used to be,
• Erectile Dysfunction,
• Impotence,
• Looses Erection just at the time of insertion,
• Small Size of Penis,
• Decreased Sexual Desire.

I am not able to satisfy my wife sexually.
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Ask him -THIS IS IMPORTANT-if he is newly married.

Newly wed man says because of above mentioned sex problem, that is because of his Erectile Dysfunction (Poor stiffness/hard on in penis), he has not been able to do sexual intercourse.

“I loose my erection even before I can penetrate.”

Ask him -THIS IS IMPORTANT- if complete insertion of penis in vagina has happened . Even after months or years of wedding the marriage can be unconsummated. Wrong diagnosis can wreck the boy’s self esteem.
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DEPRESSION IN MAN WHO IS NEWLY WED
You will also discover symptoms of depression in this young man. He does not feel fresh when he wakes up in the morning. The whole day while at work he has to push himself to do the work. Before discovery of his inability to insert his enthusiasm during the whole day used to be high such that he could take up many activities. Now he tends to procrastinate, delegate, avoid work. Check this: HEALTHMETER®

Wrong diagnosis

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Premature Ejaculation, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Small Size of Penis is not uncommon in Newly Wed Male.
During honey moon or from the first sexual intercourse itself insertion (I am not using the word ‘penetration’***) of penis in vagina has never happened.

WHY WRONG DIAGNOSIS
The penis is visible and changes in size during erection and after ejaculation. Penis is the passenger. Vagina is the passage. There could be some difficulty in the passage goes unnoticed. This typically happens in vaginismus.

Simple way to check vaginismus
Find if her own or her husband’s one finger can go inside her vagina. If it pains, if it cannot go easily the diagnosis is vaginismus.

The fear and pain while attempting insertion of finger or penis is so evident that even Gynecologic Examination is unnecessary.

You will also discover that she cannot or will not use a tampon (o.b.tampon® Johnson & Johnson’s). Tampon serves the same purpose as sanitary napkins, which are worn during menses. Tampons are to be inserted inside the vagina.

In treatment I incorporate Finger Exercise.

I have not found necessary to send even a single woman for Per Vaginal, Per Speculum Examination (PV, PS) to Obstetrician Gynecologist.
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TREATMENT METHODS FOR VAGINISMUS
How Dildo helps in treatment: The diameter of dildo is gradually increased till it corresponds to diameter of erect penis (Dildo is penis sized and is shaped like penis. It is not sharp, but round and blunt so that it will not hurt the vaginal mucosa)

I have not found necessary the use of applicator or dildo that a woman is supposed to insert and keep in her vagina for some time for the purpose of treatment of unconsummated marriage due to vaginismus.

How and why of Fenton’s Operation for treatment of vaginismus?
In the past Fenton’s Operation was done as treatment of vaginismus.

Cruciate incision was taken at the vaginal orifice to increase the dimension of vaginal opening.
This operation is out dated because the dynamics of vaginismus is unaltered.

WHAT HAPPENS IN VAGINISMUS
In vaginismus there is subconscious, sudden contraction of pubococcygeous muscles at the time of insertion in vagina. It is a vagina in panic, screaming “NO ENTRY!”.

WHY THE OPERATION FAILS
Operation does not prevent the instantaneous, involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles due to fear in anticipation of vaginal penetration. This reaction will occur if she expects pain during penetration (often even before attempting it!).
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SUMMARY
Erectile Dysfunction,
Stiffness is less,
Hard on not as before,
Diminished Sexual Desire,
Premature Ejaculation,
Penis is small in size,
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ALL these
male sexual problems are wrongly diagnosed in Newly Wed Man who is not able to penetrate (Penis could not be inserted in vagina) during sexual intercourse.
ROOT CAUSE VAGINISMUS
The condition where couple during sexual intercourse are not able to accomplish insertion of penis in vagina is called UNCONSUMMATED sex.

***Penetration
In peno-vaginal Sexual Intercourse, why the word ‘Insertion’ is preferred instead of ‘Penetration’ (As in Penetrative Sex)?

My senior colleague, eminent Dr. J. V. Bhatt, who was Dean of Medical College in the University of Mumbai remarks, “Penetration sounds harsh, forceful. Whereas Insertion indicates easily going inside where it is supposed to go.” This difference between ‘insertion’ and ‘penetration’ is important. I therefore use the word ‘insertion’ instead of the commonly used word, ‘penetration’ to convey the above meaning where ever required in context of Sexual Intercourse.
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Useful Links
1 http://mysexdoctor.blogspot.com/2008/01/healthmeter.html

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3 FirstSex-FirstNight-Suhagrat_FirstHoneymoon
4 newly-wed-husband-refuses-sex

5 no-insertion-of-penis-during-sex
6 sex-tips-before-marriage-boys

7 unconsumated-marriage

8 http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/vaginismus

9 Animated Picture showing Vaginismus

10 Large Animated Picture showing the mechanism of Vaginismus
11 Vagina in panic. www.womentc.com
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