Bleeding Pain First Sex:

(i) Every girl does not have bleeding and/or pain during first sex.
Not having bleeding/pain does not mean she is not a virgin.
(ii) Two common reasons for bleeding/pain during first sex are
A Hymen tear
B Vaginismus Vaginismus
What is hymen?
What is vaginismus?
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How to avoid bleeding and/or pain during first sex?

Though I have said ‘first’ sex, actually this pain may remain for months or years.
So it is important to know how to do sexual intercourse without pain.

Medical terms:
Bleeding = Post coital bleeding
Pain = Dyspareunia

Bleeding Pain First Sex: Causes 1. Hymen Tear 2. Vaginismus

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Bleeding Pain First Sex: REAL QUESTIONS REAL EXPERIENCES

Causes: Bleeding Pain First Sex

Pain and bleeding during first sex may be caused due to breaking of tough or rigid hymen or due to vaginismus. First sex instead of giving pleasure gives pain.
1. Hymen tear
or
2. Vaginismus

Bleeding Pain First Sex: 1 What is hymen?

Why hymen tear causes bleeding and pain during first sex

The external vaginal opening is covered by a thin elastic membrane called hymen.
Hymen is of various shapes. If you have menses it means your vaginal opening is partially covered by hymen.
After child birth the hymen is torn and remnant tags (carunculae myrtiformes) remain. This vaginal opening is called “parous introitus” as against “nulliparous introitus”.

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Dr. Prakash Kothari’s dictum: Virginity v/s Chastity

A virgin was defined as a girl with intact hymen, which tears during first sex causing bleeding and pain. Now it is known that hymen tear can happen in a girl due to various reasons such as physical activities, examples being cycling, riding.
Chastity is good moral conduct. You are not having sex of any kind.
A girl may be virgin yet she may not be chaste.
Meaning she has done all sexual activities except insertion of penis in vagina.

Bleeding Pain First Sex:

Why hymen tear causes bleeding and pain during first sex

The hymen if elastic may easily allow passing of penis.
*** The hymen does not have nerve endings. So hymen does not have pain sensation.
Actually it is vaginismus that causes the pain and / or bleeding.

Bleeding Pain First Sex: REAL QUESTIONS REAL EXPERIENCES

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MYTH: Bleeding Pain First Sex

During first sex there is always pain and bleeding.
This is ALL the knowledge about sex that 90.8% 80 % girls (who have not had premarital sex) have before marriage.
Female external genitalsAnatomy Female GenitalsExternal female genitals with names for sexual health education anatomy picture. Click to see hymen & vaginal introitus.

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MEDICAL FACT: You can avoid bleeding and or pain first Sex

A girl Picture Female AnatomyPicture to know anatomical names of female external sex organs vulva, clitoris, vaginal and urethral opening need not at all have pain during first sexual intercourse. Sex is related to joy (anand) .

WHY IS THERE PAIN BLEEDING DURING FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE?

1. Tear of tough hymen
2. Vaginismus

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Bleeding Pain First Sex: 1 What is vaginismus?

When a girl anticipates pain it is this fear of pain that causes spasm of the pubococcygeus muscles that surround the vaginal opening. This contraction causes the opening to get clamped, forcefully shut, just as a baby would forcefully shut its mouth while refusing feeds. The door is closed. No entry.
The involuntary tightening of muscles around vagina causing the external vaginal opening to tightly shut is called vaginismus. Vaginismus is neither uncommon nor abnormal. It is preventable.

mydoctortells: Note

The vaginal opening is not open like a round hollow space
O or nostril. The vagina is potential space. The walls of vagina touch each other just as the palms of both hands when brought together as in ‘Namaste’ touch each other.

One third of women have poor or no sexual desire.

The vaginal opening gets clamped tight as a reflex action in anticipation of pain. It is like you shutting your mouth tight. If someone were to force feed you, the lips will pain and may bleed too.

Bleeding Pain First Sex: Causes See Pictures

1.
Small animated picture showing how vaginismus shuts vaginal opening

2.
Animated big picture showing exact mechanism of vaginismus.

Mechanism of vaginismus

Vaginismus does not merely cause pain and/or bleeding during first sex. It has significant consequences that baffle the couple and put blame on one or the other.

Bleeding Pain First Sex: Treatment

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1. How to do sex without bleeding and pain?

2. Suhagarat first night honey moon newly wed how to insert penis in vagina

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Vaginismus can cause painful first sex

VaginismusVAGINAL OPENINGVagina is not open. The muscles around the opening of vagina go into involuntary spasm and the entrance to vagina gets blocked. This causes pain and bleeding or leads to unconsummated sex can cause painful first sex.
When the penis is thrust forcefully it leads to pain and bleeding.

Prevention of pain and bleeding during first sex

Pain and bleeding during first sex are often avoidable.
To avoid pain and bleeding during sex major role is played by

1. proper knowledge about sex,(how to insert penis in vagina) especially of first sexual intercourse,
   (Suhagarat Honeymoon first sex) )
2. bonding and intimacy with partner
   and
3. being comfortable about one’s own private parts.

For VaginismusVaginismus PictureSee animated picture showing vaginismus in action – mechanism, treatment, animated pictures click here

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• kegel-exercise
• virginity

VaginismusUnconsummated Sex Penis is unable to enter in vagina during sexual intercourse. This causes unconsummated marriage is the principal cause of unconsummated sex.
Proper sex educationSuhagratWhat not to do during suhagrat? can prevent pain and bleeding during first sex.

To see educational videoSex Education VideoYou don’t have to use any medicine supplements for honeymoon if you understand this educational video. It is purposely made to prevent abuse of Viagra on first sex click here.

You must be 18 or above years of age to see this video

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Further Reading Acknowledgement:

https://mydoctortells.com/vaginismus-treatment/

http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Your-Virginity-Without-Pain-%28Girls%29

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