Erectile Dysfunction Young Man Complete Cure 2020

image erectile dysfunction in a young male may NOT BE erectile dysfunction. Sexologist Dr. Ashok Koparday explains that loss of erection on some occasions or with some partners is a temporary phenomenon that responds well to psycho sexual therapeutic methods. You don't have to depend upon Viagra. You are not impotent. erectile dysfunction cure naturally without medicines

Erectile Dysfunction Young Man Complete Cure 2020

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These begin as temporary or occasional erection problems, which get labeled as erectile dysfunction. If not managed correctly the erection problem worsens. Later on the erections become weak even while masturbating.
This is called psychological or situational erectile dysfunction at other places. I call this as “TDE cc”, i.e. “Temporatry Difficulty in Erection – completely curable. This type of ED usually found in young men has high rates of complete cure even without medicines.

Erectile Dysfunction Psychological, Situational, Temporary, Psychogenic


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Erection is controlled by mind. When there is fear of failure or doubt about one's own sexual capacity this causes failure to get strong erection
Erection is lost when there is self doubt.

How to identify Psychological/Situational Erectile Dysfunction

Here I will tell you how to identify those problems in erection where there is no structural abnormality or damage to nerves, blood vessels or penile tissue.

When a young male below 30 calls me saying he has erectile dysfunction it usually means he DOES NOT HAVE erectile dysfunction.

erectile dysfunction situational picture showing how brain switched on causes erection and how brain cluttered with doubts and fear causes reduction in erection
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Erection in the penis depends upon the most important sex organ, your brain. Doubts and fear decrease erection. Shamelessness & carefree mind gives maximum erection

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Young male often labels himself as having erectile dysfunction after Google search because he couldn’t get it up with his girl friend. Not being able to rise to some occasions or with some partners is not because of structural damage to the tissues in the penis. Your instrument is strong and with proper guidance from an expert you can enjoy sex to the maximum. You don’t need to be dependent on Viagra (c). You are not impotent.

Erectile dysfunction (psychogenic) situation related

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Emotional/Psychological/Situational Erectile Dysfunction has high cure rate. Complete cure without medicines is possible.

Treatment: Caution for doctors, especially urologists

Don’t do
Telling the guy, “Don’t worry,” is the worst way of managing ED. I assure you he won’t worry if it was happening with you.
Don’t prescribe Viagra (or similar medicine) and send him off in 5 minutes.
Do what?
Identify his anxiety factors by detail, in-depth case history, which takes time. Address the underlying issue. If this is not done either of the two will happen.
He will be happy with the magic pill. Without the Viagra, he won’t be able to do sex, which is a natural activity.
Another unfortunate thing is he will fail to respond to Viagra (or similar PDE 5 inhibitor). This causes him to believe he has a serious problem. An incurable erectile dysfunction. Patients often suffer marital distress and can go into deep depression.
Give time, give privacy and listen to the circumstances of his erection problem. Address the cause. He will be grateful to you all his life.


This emotional or psychogenic erectile dysfunction is different from organic erectile dysfunction.
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Treatment: Caution for patients:

When you have difficulty getting erection it is important

  • to know the cause of not getting good erection.
  • avoid self medication with Viagra, Penegra, Cialis, Forzest.
  • to consult doctor about treatment.

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Taking medicines like Viagra without consulting doctor has risks. One of the risks is becoming dependent on medicine lifelong.

Why do I not get erection? Some common causes with examples.

Occasional or Situational Erectile Dysfunction

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Psychogenic Ed
Young man is shaken up when on some occasions he doesn’t get good erection the way he expects. He does Google search and wrongly labels himself as having “Erectile Dysfunction”.


Examples of situational erectile dysfunction


Before marriage he had good erection. After marriage he finds difficulty in getting erection.


A guy has good erection when alone, but not with sexual partner.


A guy had no problem achieving and maintaining erection. Then once he failed to get erection. After that his erections began to wane just at the time of insertion. Later, he did not get adequate erection even on watching pornography.


A guy is meeting his ex-girlfriend after a long time. At the time of sexual intercourse, the erection wanes.


He is tired/exhausted/drunk/irritated and finds that the tool, which worked well till date fails to rise to the occasion.


He has unrealistic expectations about sexual function. Such as he believes his erection, penis size, duration of sex is inadequate to satisfy his partner.


He has wrong ideas/beliefs about what satisfies a woman and thinks he is inadequate.


First sex / Newlywed


With a prostitute
(She usually tells him to drink beer before visiting. Some others scare you.)


Did you know? Nine out of ten people don’t get erection at least once by the age of forty.



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How erection problem worsens

When a man labels himself as having erectile dysfunction part of his mind keeps watching his own performance. This is called spectatoring. Spectatoring further decreases erection because he is not totally carefree and focused on sexual pleasure. Each failure of getting erection pulls the man 10 steps behind. Not getting an erection once upon a time is itself the cause of not getting erection.
The germ called ‘self-doubt’ creates erectile problems in healthy adult men.
When there is performance anxiety even normal man with a normal penis can have difficulty in erection.


Though this Erectile Dysfunction can be cured Naturally Without Medicines it is a major crisis for people. It is BEST to meet experienced Sexologist rather than waste time in distress or buying medicine yourself.
Erectile Dysfunction (previously called IMPOTENCE) causes such a marked dissatisfaction that it can lead to severe distress amounting to depression and can even lead to considerable impairment in work and relationships. Marriages are at a risk of getting broken in well-meaning, educated newlywed couples.

A boy/man/guy afflicted with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) can have a difficulty that spills into other areas of his life (aspects other than sexual life) 24 x 7. The mind becomes unquiet even if he imagines he has ED, that is in the absence of proven ED. ED, unfortunately, becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What this means is – IMPORTANT –
A man may not really have ED, but the doubt, the apprehension, the belief, just the imagination, fear or worry of ED (impotence) can lead to impotence/erectile dysfunction.
The other causes of situational ED are
inadequate sexual arousal (no mood)
disturbance (some physical or emotional disturbance as having had a bad day or the mood is not just right).

Often in this type of ED the sexual act is mechanical (without enough sexual arousal) or forced attempt at sexual intercourse, that is, attempting sex in the absence of high sexual arousal, as in situations when sex is motivated mainly by intention of pregnancy or when the Doctor has recommended certain dates for sexual intercourse to facilitate conception or to avoid pregnancy.

It may also occur just because he/she believes he/she is expected to do sex (important situational reason) as on occasions such as the first night after wedding (Suhagrat) when he is really not prepared for it.

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Top Female Sexologist, Dr. Hetal Gosalia, tells [click] how even with ED or PE man can fully satisfy a woman

Fear of failure is a common cause of Erectile Dysfunction.
It is well known that PERFORMANCE ANXIETY causes impotence or failure to obtain or sustain an erection.
If the boy (guy/man) is under pressure resulting from too much desire to impress her, example, as in extramarital affair (includes premarital affair) or during honeymoon (wrongly believing that the first impression is the last impression).


The process below works well with most of my patients.
In couple therapy, understanding and cooperative female partner is a huge help.
In the first step, the guy goes into sex play with full zest. However, in the entire sex play insertion of penis in vagina is prohibited. Both enjoy mutual masturbation to get an orgasm.
This first step of no genital penetration is done on 7 occasions.
Next step follows.
Later during the sex play, he inserts a finger into the vagina. If the finger easily glides in it means there is no vaginismus and there is adequate lubrication.
She then holds the erect penis and directs it to the vaginal orifice.
This prevents inadvertent trials of incorrect insertion.
Most couples are able to enjoy satisfactory sexual intercourse from this point onwards.

If there is rapid discharge on insertion do not get discouraged. Simply increase the frequency of sexual intercourse. This delays ejaculation.

Sex joy therapy restores man’s SELF CONFIDENCE.

(The above SEX JOY THERAPY is taken from my contribution to YAHOO answers
Happiness doctor,
Ashok Koparday
Samadhan Health Studio

Erectile Dysfunction: MYTHS MISCONCEPTIONS

He may be stressed out due to high expectation from oneself or lack of confidence in one’s sexual ability or misconception, myth or wrong belief about genitals or their ability.


GOOD NEWS is most often, especially under the guidance of an experienced counselor (Sex Therapist), this man’s ED is curable.


Situational Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is TEMPORARY inability in obtaining and or maintaining Erection good enough for satisfactory sexual intercourse.

Note that this ED is temporary and almost always curable even without medicines usually with the help of an expert marriage or sex counselor.

Differential Diagnosis – WHAT IS NOT SITUATIONAL ED?

In contrast to situational ED is ORGANIC ED, that is ED, which is because of causes such as actual damage caused by disease processes such as Diabetes or Hypertension. Thus, pathological process is implicated in the causation of Organic Erectile Dysfunction.

Which doctor to see for ED in young man?

Erection Problem in a Young Person calls for treatment from an experienced sexologist

Do not go to a Urologist, Psychiatrist or a Gynecologist. Your best bet is an experienced Sexologist says Top Sexologist in India Dr. Ashok Koparday Ex. Teaching Faculty K.E.M. & J.J. Hospital, University of Mumbai

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July 21, 2017 at 10:38 pm

my panis is not able to erect properly when I do sex with my gf..
it gets more hard when I masturbate..
I materbate 5 times in a week..
I m feeling weakness in my panis do I stop masturbating

    Dr. Ashok Koparday Best Sexologist in Mumbai

    August 18, 2017 at 6:42 pm

    Your penis has no problem.
    You can read above
    the problem is because you are anxious when you are with your girl friend.

    “kya hoga?
    Mai thik say kar paunga ki nahi?
    Nahi kar paya to woh kya sochegi?”

    aise vicharon ki wajah say pura tight nahi ho pata.
    Your penis will erect properly when you go with SELF CONFIDENCE.
    Initially, you may find erection is less. This is because sexual intercourse is a new experience for you.
    Do not get disheartened due to this.
    Just as initially while learning cycling or driving you are not perfect so too
    in sex you may not be perfect.
    Know that just as you are scared the girl is also scared (more than you).

    You have no problem in penis.
    You will do well.
    Dr. Ashok Koparday


July 26, 2016 at 3:21 pm

Hello sir

I had faced the issue with ed when I was going to do sex with gf. sex karne se pahle mera penis khada tha jb me usko kisa kr rha tha or sari activity kr rha tha.but kareen 1 ghante bad jb sex krne ka time aya to mera penis down ho gya or kafi koshish k bad bhi nhi khada hua. me bahut sharminda hua.

    Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Sex Therapist, Accredited

    September 17, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    Is tarah ka anubhav bahot ladkonka hai.
    Chalna ya cycle chalana jab shuru kiya tab shuru may to taklif hoti hai na?
    Samajdar usey kahenge jo BINDAS rehta hai, khud ko erectile dysfunction ka marij nahi samajta. Kyon ki baad may sahi ho hi jata hai.

Msssxxz asszedfs

October 19, 2013 at 7:48 pm

I am facing erection problems, i am not able to keep it firm and hard full erections, before intercourse my erection fades away or even if i have managed to do intercourse i ejaculate immediately.Sir i showed myself to a urologist in mumbai dr bijoy abrhem in kokilabhen hospital. he advised me to take tazzle 20 mg and clonil 10 mg for a month 1′s a day i took it for 4 days and results were good so i stopped it immediately, so that i didn’t wanted to become medicine prone.After a month i have again started facing the same problem in not getting full erections issues,I think i dont even receive erections in the night while sleeping. Sir please help i am going to get married in next 2 months. please sir help me with a permanent and safe soultion HELP ME SIR.



kishor r. p.

September 19, 2013 at 3:28 pm

Sir, recently I m facing ED problem.
Previously i had done sex with women n men (mainly with men).
I got married 1 week before. Two days before, when i goes near to my wife, i face ED.
I got shock. Not even think of this.
Before marrige, i m little worried how i m going to manage sex life with my wife.
Now i feel depressed n guilty
Please help me out of this dilemma

kishor r. p.

    Premier World Class Best Treatment Sexual Health Center Samadhan India By Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Sex Therapist, Accredited

    September 19, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    Hey Kishor,

    (Name changed.
    Separate personalized reply to solve the problem sent by email).

    *** This can definitely be corrected. Don’t panic. ***

    Step I
    Give some excuse for not doing sex for some time This time is for you to get out of present shock. You require time to sort out what is happening and use proper solution to accomplish penetration in vagina.

    Step 2

    I am shocked. Is this common?

    This is not uncommon for the newlywed.

    What you have described is a very typical situation related erection problem. People have come to us for treatment with uncounsumated sex 3 days, 3 months, 3 years and even 6 years after marriage. All triggered by an incident like you have experienced and persisting because of lack of help from experienced Sex Therapist.

    Step 3
    Read the following carefully and repeatedly.

    You can download pdf of this slide show by clicking on this link How to get powerful erection (once lost) during sexual intercourse?

    You will certainly benefit by consulting a Sex Therapist because the incidence has shaken you up.

    With the help of an experienced Sex Therapist you can overcome the hurdle and accomplish satisfactory sexual intercourse.
    Best wishes,

    Happiness doctor,

    Ashok Koparday
    Consultant Sexual Medicine &

    Marriage Counselor


January 17, 2012 at 12:49 pm

I am 53yrs old and of-late I amhaving a problem with sex .I workout regularly, have a healthy diet, I smoke 5-6cigarette a day n a glass of wine on weekend.Till last year i used to have twice week sex but offlate I am trying to avoid even if i want to..
The stiffnes in my penis has reduced in the bargain it is becoming difficult to penetrate there by creating embracing situation for me..
Tried X-vita of vaidyanath taken 40pils no result, taken garlic pearls no result.
Need urgent advice

    Premier World Class Best Treatment Sexual Health Center Samadhan India By Ashok Koparday, Sexologist and Marriage Counselor, Sex Therapist, Accredited

    January 19, 2012 at 4:22 pm

    Hi Kavi ,

    I workout regularly, – – -This is certainly good for sex.

    have a healthy diet, – – – -This too is good for sex
    I smoke 5-6cigarette a day – – – – Damaging in the long run. By the way 95% people with pulmonary cancer are smokers.

    n a glass of wine on weekend. – – – This too is fine (if you invite me.)

    Tried X-vita of vaidyanath taken 40pils no result, – – – – very useful for the manufacturer, useless for you.
    taken garlic pearls no result. – – – – Useless.
    Need urgent advice

    Kindly do Blood glucose levels fasting and postprandial.
    Check Blood pressure on three different occasions. Note the reading on a piece of paper and tell me.

    We have to rule out other illness that are causing or affecting your erectile dysfunction.
    We will take it from there.

    Dr. Ashok Koparday
    Consultant Sex Therapist
    Marriage Counselor

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